Comments on: Let a Man Chase You. Here’s How… http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/ Love every drop of gorgeous you! Tue, 17 Apr 2012 15:55:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Goddesspower http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/comment-page-3/#comment-12554 Goddesspower Fri, 30 Mar 2012 15:47:11 +0000 http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=233#comment-12554 Hi Sophie, Your friends and family love you. They're voicing concern. Do you know what you want? Are you ready to give up all the wonderful things going on in your life to travel with a man you barely know for a whole year? Love, Goddess Hi Sophie,
Your friends and family love you. They’re voicing concern. Do you know what you want? Are you ready to give up all the wonderful things going on in your life to travel with a man you barely know for a whole year? Love, Goddess

]]> By: Sophie K http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/comment-page-3/#comment-12536 Sophie K Thu, 29 Mar 2012 16:19:33 +0000 http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=233#comment-12536 Hi Goddess, I recently broke up with an ex of 3 years but in between that time I traveled for a month, and we had a bit of a rough patch and I met the most amazing guy and cheated. After I returned I chalked it up to a vacation fling/romance, decided to keep it hush, and thought I would probably never see this man again. Also, he is significantly older than me, while my ex was only a couple of years older. Two years after this we broke up, but during this time I was in touch (we chatted nothing too serious, it was very friendly) with the vacation guy (he lives in another country- not far though).. we always had a strong connection both physically and mentally, but I knew there was no point in pursuing it. Anyways, finally my ex and I rightfully broke up (which I realize should have happened awhile ago), and about two months after the break-up vacation guy booked a flight to see me as soon as he heard the news. He spent some time here and it was incredible, and I felt more connected to him in a very short time than I did with my ex of 3 years. We had such an amazing time together that we've decided to go traveling abroad for a year in a couple of months. Does this sound like totally reckless behaviour or am I allowed to enjoy the moment and see where it takes me? For some reason, it feels right, I'm an adult and I don't think I'm doing anything wrong, but my friends/family are/will pass a lot of judgment... are they seeing something I'm not? Hi Goddess,
I recently broke up with an ex of 3 years but in between that time I traveled for a month, and we had a bit of a rough patch and I met the most amazing guy and cheated. After I returned I chalked it up to a vacation fling/romance, decided to keep it hush, and thought I would probably never see this man again. Also, he is significantly older than me, while my ex was only a couple of years older.
Two years after this we broke up, but during this time I was in touch (we chatted nothing too serious, it was very friendly) with the vacation guy (he lives in another country- not far though).. we always had a strong connection both physically and mentally, but I knew there was no point in pursuing it. Anyways, finally my ex and I rightfully broke up (which I realize should have happened awhile ago), and about two months after the break-up vacation guy booked a flight to see me as soon as he heard the news. He spent some time here and it was incredible, and I felt more connected to him in a very short time than I did with my ex of 3 years. We had such an amazing time together that we’ve decided to go traveling abroad for a year in a couple of months.
Does this sound like totally reckless behaviour or am I allowed to enjoy the moment and see where it takes me? For some reason, it feels right, I’m an adult and I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong, but my friends/family are/will pass a lot of judgment… are they seeing something I’m not?

]]> By: Goddesspower http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/comment-page-3/#comment-12532 Goddesspower Thu, 29 Mar 2012 15:13:16 +0000 http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=233#comment-12532 Hi Angelica, Why don't you start making some fun plans on your own? Plan things to do with your girlfriends, take up a new hobby etc. Get busy instead of waiting for his texts, honey! PS: A "date" is not something that occurs at 1 am either. (warm hug) Love, Goddess Hi Angelica,
Why don’t you start making some fun plans on your own? Plan things to do with your girlfriends, take up a new hobby etc. Get busy instead of
waiting for his texts, honey! PS: A “date” is not something that occurs at 1 am either. (warm hug) Love, Goddess

]]> By: Angelica http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/comment-page-3/#comment-12509 Angelica Wed, 28 Mar 2012 23:09:19 +0000 http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=233#comment-12509 QiHi goddess I been seeing this guy for about 10 months At first we went out to movies, sushi, jetsking. But know I only see him at 1 night we hang out then fall asleep at his house He runs his own pizza business so he busy when working I don't here from him only late Saturday when he finishes I get text busy week how are you? I also work in food business so I know But latelyon his days off, I don't here from him unless I contact him or text him first My friend say let him text u and I should back off a little But also we never had the talk are we boyfriend girl friend I don't know what to do. Advice please QiHi goddess I been seeing this guy for about 10 months
At first we went out to movies, sushi, jetsking.
But know I only see him at 1 night we hang out then fall asleep at his house
He runs his own pizza business so he busy when working I don’t here from him only late Saturday when he finishes I get text busy week how are you?
I also work in food business so I know
But latelyon his days off, I don’t here from him unless I contact him or text him first
My friend say let him text u and I should back off a little
But also we never had the talk are we boyfriend girl friend
I don’t know what to do. Advice please

]]> By: Goddesspower http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/comment-page-3/#comment-11982 Goddesspower Fri, 16 Mar 2012 21:06:04 +0000 http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=233#comment-11982 Hi Cherry, Have you been doing the homework on this site? That's where you start on your quest to knowing you are not a doormat. If you need more, you can book a private coaching session with me. Email me @Goddesspower978@hotmail.com Love, Goddess Hi Cherry,
Have you been doing the homework on this site? That’s where you start on your quest to knowing you are not a doormat. If you need more, you can book a private coaching session with me. Email
me @Goddesspower978@hotmail.com Love, Goddess

]]> By: Cherry http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/comment-page-3/#comment-11971 Cherry Fri, 16 Mar 2012 15:22:24 +0000 http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=233#comment-11971 Hi, My husband emotionally abused me for a long time, finally I decided to go apart from him. I'm now separated from him and we have 2 small children. I have been involved with a married man for over a year (coworker for over 4 years), a great guy (of course. He makes me feel like i'm in cloud 9. He is a man of every woman's dream, yes with lots of flaws....., but yet I'm madly in love with him. He says he is too. But reading a lot of resources, and doing a lot of thinking I realized I'm truly a "doormat" to him too. He is still the same when we are together, but his contacts has drastically decreased, and shows a little interest in sex. The thing is he never gets angry at me, says anything negative about anything what so ever. I am struggling because he is not himself lately, I asked him, he said nothing was wrong just tired lately. He blew me off today (we were supposed to get together) saying he was waiting for my call/text. He has done that a couple of times, he handles them so smoothly making them seem like they were my fault. And he won't give up until I admit to them. It is very distrubing to me that I CAN NOT get my way with him, yet we don't fight. And I don't show him my dissappointmet or my sadness to him since he is a smooth talker and very affectionate at all times. i am not at a point where I can break up with him. Is there a way for me to be strong and stop being his "Doormat?" Hi,

My husband emotionally abused me for a long time, finally I decided to go apart from him. I’m now separated from him and we have 2 small children. I have been involved with a married man for over a year (coworker for over 4 years), a great guy (of course. He makes me feel like i’m in cloud 9. He is a man of every woman’s dream, yes with lots of flaws….., but yet I’m madly in love with him. He says he is too. But reading a lot of resources, and doing a lot of thinking I realized I’m truly a “doormat” to him too. He is still the same when we are together, but his contacts has drastically decreased, and shows a little interest in sex. The thing is he never gets angry at me, says anything negative about anything what so ever. I am struggling because he is not himself lately, I asked him, he said nothing was wrong just tired lately. He blew me off today (we were supposed to get together) saying he was waiting for my call/text. He has done that a couple of times, he handles them so smoothly making them seem like they were my fault. And he won’t give up until I admit to them. It is very distrubing to me that I CAN NOT get my way with him, yet we don’t fight. And I don’t show him my dissappointmet or my sadness to him since he is a smooth talker and very affectionate at all times. i am not at a point where I can break up with him. Is there a way for me to be strong and stop being his “Doormat?”

]]> By: Goddesspower http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/comment-page-3/#comment-11865 Goddesspower Tue, 13 Mar 2012 13:27:57 +0000 http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=233#comment-11865 I'm really glad you're enjoying the blog. You're asking me so many questions! I'm not clear on what you want. Do you want a guy to chase you or do you want this guy? You may be over thinking this situation instead of staying grounded in your life and all its opportunities. A lot of which have nothing to do with a guy. Does this make sense? Love, Goddess I’m really glad you’re enjoying the blog. You’re asking me so many questions! I’m not clear on what you want. Do you want a guy to chase you or do you want this guy? You may be over thinking this situation instead of staying grounded in your life and all its opportunities. A lot of which have nothing to do with a guy. Does this make sense? Love, Goddess

]]> By: Goddesspower http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/comment-page-3/#comment-11864 Goddesspower Tue, 13 Mar 2012 13:24:07 +0000 http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=233#comment-11864 Hi Alyssa, Thanks for enjoying the web site! You're over thinking. You're focused too much on the "end game" which is the label: girlfriend. Why don't you just enjoy your time together and watch his actions? If he is backing up his words with actions that please you, then that sounds good to me. I don't know what pleases you. You have to figure out that one for YOU. And never ever lie to a guy. Or anyone. Lying creates tons of bad karma and mistrust. You don't want someone lying to you, do you? Love, Goddess Hi Alyssa,
Thanks for enjoying the web site! You’re over thinking. You’re focused too much on the “end game” which is the label: girlfriend. Why don’t you just enjoy your time together and watch his actions? If he is backing up his words with actions that please you, then that sounds good to me. I don’t know what pleases you. You have to figure out that one for YOU. And never ever lie to a guy. Or anyone. Lying creates tons of bad karma and mistrust. You don’t want someone lying to you, do you? Love, Goddess

]]> By: Alyssa http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/comment-page-3/#comment-11844 Alyssa Tue, 13 Mar 2012 04:25:56 +0000 http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=233#comment-11844 This website is so empowering by the way! But I have a quick thing to say... So I met this guy a few weeks ago, we aren't "official" but he says he plans on making it anytime soon, and he wants it to be special, not some "wanna be my girlfriend" thing, but he told me he tells everyone I am his girlfriend. Well anyways, I feel like we have been taking it kind of slow, and that is completely fine with me, but he hasn't called me all day. I have been calling him occasionally, but ultimately, he is the one who makes the first call and what not. So, we barely talked yesterday, and he told me he would call me later (This was yesterday.) Well anyways, what should my limit be? Should I wait a few more days? I will NOT give in to calling him, considering I would feel that would be too needy. How long is too long? And honestly, what should I say when he does call me? Tell him I have plans and make him pity that he didn't call me when I didn't the day before? :) THANK YOU!!! This website is so empowering by the way! But I have a quick thing to say… So I met this guy a few weeks ago, we aren’t “official” but he says he plans on making it anytime soon, and he wants it to be special, not some “wanna be my girlfriend” thing, but he told me he tells everyone I am his girlfriend. Well anyways, I feel like we have been taking it kind of slow, and that is completely fine with me, but he hasn’t called me all day. I have been calling him occasionally, but ultimately, he is the one who makes the first call and what not. So, we barely talked yesterday, and he told me he would call me later (This was yesterday.) Well anyways, what should my limit be? Should I wait a few more days? I will NOT give in to calling him, considering I would feel that would be too needy. How long is too long? And honestly, what should I say when he does call me? Tell him I have plans and make him pity that he didn’t call me when I didn’t the day before? :) THANK YOU!!!

]]> By: Undisclosed http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/comment-page-3/#comment-11838 Undisclosed Mon, 12 Mar 2012 23:47:54 +0000 http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=233#comment-11838 Hi Goddess, I think I have read your entire blog many times over - great stuff! My problem is this... what if you have a guy who is not a chaser? I mean, he makes time for me, and is always good to me when we're together, he "produces" for me when I hint at things I would like, etc. But he just does not initiate contact. Or I can never wait him out. He's always happy to hear from me, just won't reach out. As long as I am willing to contact him first, we stay in touch. I can't figure him out. Is it possible there are some men who don't like to chase? Who prefer to be more passive and just wait until they are summoned? I would like to take your advice and just go about my life and let him come to me, only I'm afraid he never would! Does that really mean he is "not that into me"? Thanks!! Hi Goddess,

I think I have read your entire blog many times over – great stuff! My problem is this… what if you have a guy who is not a chaser? I mean, he makes time for me, and is always good to me when we’re together, he “produces” for me when I hint at things I would like, etc. But he just does not initiate contact. Or I can never wait him out. He’s always happy to hear from me, just won’t reach out. As long as I am willing to contact him first, we stay in touch. I can’t figure him out. Is it possible there are some men who don’t like to chase? Who prefer to be more passive and just wait until they are summoned? I would like to take your advice and just go about my life and let him come to me, only I’m afraid he never would! Does that really mean he is “not that into me”? Thanks!!

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