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Easy Ways to Add Bliss and Adventure to Your Life!

Take a moment for you.  Or three, four, or a whole hour.  How about really going for it and taking a DAY?  It sounds so amazing, doesn’t it?  Then that little thing called “guilt” takes over.  My goal is to spread fun and play throughout the world.  And yes, I still feel guilty about taking time for fun.  I have so many responsibilities and goals I want to accomplish.  I’m getting much better, but guilt still happens. 

Darn guilt.  We eagerly anticipate the fun awaiting on the weekend:  parties, relaxing, laughter and play.  We long for our vacation.  The bliss of getting away from it all and the discovery of new adventures.  But what about all the moments in between?  Can we really bring this sort of excitement to each and every day without guilt?  Absolutely! 

It starts with that glorious mind of yours.  Your creative imagination.  So…would you like to take a trip with me?

1.  Pick a country—we’re going tonight.  We’ll pick Greece as an example.  Pick up some Greek cuisine on the way home.  Or make a feast of Greek Salad, hummus and pita bread.   When you get home find some Greek music on the Internet.  We’ll make a pic nic in the living room.   If we have the energy to dance later…yes!

2.  Have an all out spa experience.  Do a tough work out.  Get out the days’ frustrations.  Turn off the cell, computer and unplug anything that may interrupt you.  When you’re done, light candles and bathe leisurely. Give yourself a facial, manicure and pedicure.  Apply your absolute favorite body lotion slowly on your body.  Spritz yourself with your favorite perfume and go to bed.

3.  Have a movie marathon.  Again, unplug or turn off any device that could interrupt you.  Get your favorite things to eat and drink together and bliss out.  Or you could make it a fun theme.  French foreign film:  wine and brie.  American film: popcorn, soda…you get the idea!

4.  It’s fall and it’s a wonderful time to hike in the woods, hills or mountain top.  Bring a pic nic.  Savor the experience.

5.  Speaking of savoring…here’s a good one.  Savor a meal like the French do.  No TV, no radio, no distraction.  Savor the aroma, color, texture by indulging slowly.

6.  Give yourself a mini-make over at Sephora or Ulta.  Savor all those make-up kits with the big price tags without the investment!  Blow yourself a kiss in a mirror when you’re done.

7.  Make a list of all the adventures and experiences you would like to have.  Big and small.  Do one a week.

This is the tip of your “Ways to Add Bliss and Adventure to Your Life”  iceberg.  Let that beautiful imagination run wild.  With absolutely no guilt.  And please share.  I’m always up for a new adventure!

With love, laughter and play, Goddess

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I Love Being Female: Our Own Wikipedia!

Here it is…our Love Being Female Wikipedia!  Share with me why you love being female and our love will grow like the famous online encyclopedia. 

1.  I love being female because I’m the ultimate creatrix.   I can create life. 

2.  I love being female because as the ultimate creatrix, I have been blessed with the ability to nurture.  I can nurture anything:  A baby, a career, a passion, you name it! 

3.  I love being female because we are so sensual.  I can make my surroundings feel good not only with touch (soft pillows, sweaters, blankets) sight (candles, art, plants, flowers, pictures of those I love and love me) taste (chocolate, my favorite yummy foods, wine) sound (music of all kinds, the nature outside my window) and smell (incense, perfume, flowers)

4.  I love being female because there are so many fun shopping destinations.  So many places to play in!

5.  I love being female because men adore us.  Men and their adoration is so much fun!  Thank you for adoring us females, men.

6.  I love being female because I have all these beautiful curves.  Breasts, waist, thighs and butt.  And just like Maya Angelou says, they mesmerize!

7.  I love being female with my girlfriends.  Getting into deep conversations, getting emotional, cheering each other on, getting all dressed up and flirting with each other, dancing. 

8.  I love being female because I love dancing!  I love learning new kinds or just getting up and shaking it to the latest hot song.

9.  I love being female because I can surrender to a man on the dance floor.  It doesn’t matter if he is skilled or not.  He opens his arms to me and I surrender to those strong muscular arms.  

10.  I love being female because I can multi-task like nobody’s business!

11.  I love being female because I can empathize with people’s problems and fears. 

12.  I love being a female because I have a clitoris.  An organ that was made with one purpose…mind blowing pleasure.

13.  From Passionate Blogger:  Being female today definitely is a blessing in most parts of the world, and women are becoming more powerful and influential in almost all aspects of life – directly or indirectly.   I just hope this development will be appreciated by all.

I think that’s a good place to end this part of our wikipedia.  I cannot wait to add to this and hear all the ways you enjoy being female!  Love, Goddess

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Finding Love Does He Love Me?

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Finding love…does he love me?  You have a new man in your life and things have been going well: Dating Tips for Women:  Let a Man Chase You Here’s How   You’ve been dating steadily for a few months.  You’re having fun and getting closer.  And then you say it.  You give your man a term of endearment, like “honey,” or “baby.”  He says nothing.  Or worse, he gets a panic stricken look on his face.  Not what you expected.  Fun times cease to exist.  LOL.  Why does finding love have to be so hard!  So what is that about, ladies?  In this post we are going to answer 2 important questions.

1.  Why did he panic when I gave him an endearment like “honey” or “baby?”

2.  Why am I upset about this?

Let’s take number 2 first.  And let’s agree that we get upset.  We react emotionally. On the outside we may be calm, but our emotions on the inside are going haywire.  We feel put off when a man we just gave affection to seems to rebuff that affection.  And that’s completely feminine and perfect.  Except, that we are responding to the situation as a female.  We aren’t thinking from the male perspective.  We are responding as a female, and he is responding as a male.  We’re both responding according to our own unique female or male nature.   So let’s break down each “nature.”

“Female Nature.”  The reason why we get upset: when a guy calls us “honey” or “baby” and we kinda like him but don’t want to get any more serious, we freak out a bit, and say to ourselves, “well, he’s a great guy and all, but I don’t think I want it to go any further.”  So when the situation is reversed, and the male reacts that way, we think…oh he doesn’t really like me that much.  How many of you have been here?  I have, LOL!

“Male Nature.”  Is processing.  The reason why he is reacting this way is…he’s just realized he cares about you, too!  There is huge feeling going on and now he realizes he is vulnerable and could get hurt.   It’s a lot for him and he may need a moment…or a day or two to catch up.

So what do we do?  We let him catch up and stop thinking this is about us.  And it’s hard!  We’re female and react in a feminine way.  How easy is it for us to walk around telling those we love “we love you!”  “See you later…love you!”  “I miss you and love you!”  Hug and kisses blown.  Very feminine.  Yay us.  Men don’t do this activity as much.  Have you noticed?  They are more likely to say something like, “Later, bro.”  LOL.  So when men tell you they care and or they love you it’s HUGE!  Remember, men demonstrate their devotion to you through actions.  Yay them.  When they say they care, it’s HUGE.  So lets cut them a little slack, work against our very feminine nature and try to understand his male nature.  Play with this and make it no big deal.

But Goddess…he should try and understand where I’m coming from!  Please. (that was sarcasm)  Love is action.  If you are caught up in “what he should be doing for me” that is bratty and that is all about you.  Are you Miss Perfect all the time?  Do you want to be loved for who you are?  Do you want to be loved when you are at your worst?  This is where it starts.  If this is a man who has been showing you he cares through his actions, give back to him in a big way.  Understand his male nature and don’t take things so personally.   There is another person in the relationship.  Him.  And he doesn’t want to get hurt either.  This is a very vulnerable time for him.  Respect it by letting him process that he cares for you.  This is a gift…you are being patient and still loving while he is being vulnerable.

I love the song “High Enough” by Damn Yankees.  It deals with this very subject.  The song is about a male panic attack when his girl called him “baby.” And it’s so sweet.  He admits he made a mistake and didn’t know what to say. Then he asks her to “take him higher” in the relationship.   Listen to the above video and enjoy.  Play this song if you get this kind of reaction from a man who cares about you.  Smile at your “female nature.”  Think about how cute you are for reacting emotionally.  Remember the “male nature,” and don’t take his reaction too personally.  And…by doing that…watch him move closer to you!  I would love to hear any experiences you’ve had regarding this subject.  With love laughter and a big hug, Goddess

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The Perfect Kiss

The perfect kiss.  We had just taken a walk on the beach.  It’s a brilliant warm late summer day.  We’ve enjoyed a summer full of fun, play, deepening friendship and hot chemistry.  Chemistry so hot you know when they walk in the room.  You don’t have to see them…you know they are there.   We knew the moment was coming.  The moment we taste for real the swirling chemistry around us.  When will that delicious moment finally happen?

I turn back to watch the ocean.  I watch the water and waves tumbling on each other.  I feel him come up behind me.  His warmth and the sensuality of the moment feels so amazing.  He breathes in the scent of my hair and caresses it tentatively and softly.  I feel the enjoyment of his breath and caress.  His sigh of contentment confirms he has wanted to do this for so long.  I lean against him so I can be even closer to him.  We stay this way for a few moments.  Savoring each other.

Then…I slowly turn around and look into his chest.  His amazing masculine chest.  The shirt…light yellow.  The warm breeze caresses my cheeks as I look up into his eyes.  He looks deeply into mine. We’re so locked into each other…and it hasn’t happened yet.  Our lips slowly start to come together…then I turn away.  Again…our lips start to come together and I turn away.  This dance of anticipation, fear and desire continues.  Finally…our lips meet.  It’s nothing short of incredible.  And my mind says…”Oh…no.”

Coming…how to enjoy every drop of passion with a man.  Actually increase it.  All without losing you to the “oh, no.”

Love, Goddess

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