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Thank You!!

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Thank you!!!!!

1.  For joining the Bitch Rebellion. 

2.  For your energy, vulnerability and sassy stories.

3.  The passion you are putting into taking care of YOU.

4.  For all your warm, witty and sweet comments here, and Bitch Lifestyle on Facebook.

5.  For embracing the unknown, the outrageous and bursting out of the box.

6.  For all of us supporting each other.  Our dreams, our fears, our crazy and not so crazy thoughts.

7.  To saying NO to competing with other women. 

8.  To saying grounded in the positive.

9.  Knowing that every challenge we face, big or small, we’ll do it with charm, bluntness and humor.

10. We never wallow in “Expectations.”  We enjoy and accept the outcome, what we have and party with the gems unearthed.  And we remember that those gems just might need some polishing to make them shine.

11.  For checking the Brat and the Drama Queen at the door.  For being polite to the Brats and Drama Queens we meet, but staying uninvolved.

12.  For embracing all that makes  life worthwhile:  Play, tickling, laughter, fun, chocolate, adventure, new experiences and people.   A Bitch never feels guilty about savoring her favorite tastes and relishing all of her senses.

13.  For saying No to whining and YES to solving the problem.

14.  To whoever created chocolate, brie, red wine, bacon, pancakes and insert your favorite here:

15.  To Love.  Loving each other, playing our gorgeous butts off and to all our passions!

Wishing you the most fun, play filled, sensual, passionate Holiday ever.  And a successful New Year!

Love, Hugs and Kisses,  Goddess

This Week at Bitch University: Strong Sassy Women

This week at Bitch University I’m giving you strong, sassy women to learn from.  Rent or watch “Battlestar Galactica” on Netflix.  Here are your instructors and the courses they’re teaching:

Picture of Laura Rosalin from www.entertainmentweekly.com

Understanding the Male Ego:  Instructor, Laura Rosalin.  She goes from being Education Secretary to President of the fleet.  She is responsible for the last 49,000 humans alive.  In order to do this she has to become leader and politician overnight.  She also must work with the Commander of the fleet, Adama, who’ll go to any lengths to protect it.  She understands and appreciates how deep this man’s (or any mans’) need is to protect.  After a rocky start the two get along famously and they fall deeply in love.  Oh…and she does all of this while battling cancer.   At Bitch University you deserve the best:   Rosalin will teach you all you need to run any show.

Picture of Kara Thrace from www.buddytv.com

Calling People on Their Bullshit One And Two:  Instructor, Kara Thrace.  Kara is the best fighter pilot in the fleet, is rarely seen in anything but her uniform, and will call you on your crap in a minute.  And she has ALL the hot men in love with her.   She’s passionate, fiery, playful and is the definition of courageous.  She’ll show you how to call people on their crap, be 100% true to yourself, how to play and flirt with men, and as a bonus beat anyone at cards.

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Introduction to Vocal Control:  Instructor, Six.  She’s hot, blonde, intelligent and has a body to die for.   Despite all her physical attributes, her voice is what mesmerises.  Slow, sensual, gorgeous, charming and firm.  Never underestimate your voice, Bitches.  Learn how to use it to captivate in your professional and personal life.

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Problem Solving Basics:  Instructor Dualla teaches the power of quiet strength.  She’ll show you how to navigate and solve problems on a daily basis all while not raising your voice.  Only when you master this phase will she pass you to Part Two, Advanced.  Problem Solving Basics must be taken with Introduction to Vocal Control.

Problem Solving Advanced:  Instructor Dualla.  Learn how to resolve a crisis by quickly finding an unobtrusive way to get things done.   Not necessarily with the knowledge or approval of your superiors.  A must in every Bitches’ arsenal!

Want more?  How about some eye candy?

Sam from www.buddytv.com

Strong sassy women aren’t enough for you?  Okay…how about epic romances, tragic romances, never knowing what’s next and best of all-this series is character based.  Characters, twists and turns that will keep you on the edge of your seat.  This is the only sci fi series that ever got my attention and kept it.  So get studying!  Love, Goddess

© S Stevens Life Strategies

Healthy Habits What A Bitch Wouldn’t Be Caught Dead Doing

Quote from the awesome web site Daemonstv


Healthy habits…for your self esteem, dating, career and everything else fun in between!  These healthy habits for you … and the actions you put behind them are all sassy, fun and successful Bitch.  How many healthy habits do you prescribe to? 😉

1.   Reading books like “He’s Just Not That Into You” or “How to Land A Man.”  (Yes, that’s a real book too. Tried to find a link but…couldn’t…YES!)

2.   Compromising.

3.   Starting a sentence with… “The problem with you is…”  or  “No way I’d ever do that…”

4.   Failing to rise to the challenge.

5.   Whining about being bored or having nothing to do.

6.   Wallowing in the past or what (sniff) could have been.

7.   Spitting, cracking gum, slurping, burping, or itching certain areas in public.

8.   Shying away if she’s in the center of a scandal.  (She faces it head on with pleasure and rises above it.)

9.   Being a wallflower at an event or party.

10. Avoiding anything that’s scary, uncomfortable or makes her a little uneasy. (Bitch says Bring it On!)

11.  Like she just rolled out of bed in public.  (She takes the time to take care of herself.  She’s never one of those people walking in flip flops in 3 feet of snow, or wearing polka dot and plaid together)

12.  Saying “no” to an intriguing adventure or anything new.

13.  Whining.

14.  Shrinking or surrendering to a man. Letting him control her every move.  (Exception:  she’s “surrendering” to a man giving her pleasure in bed)

15.  Begging a man to stay after he’s told her he needs “space.”  (She blows him a sassy kiss or helps him pack.)

16.  Being embarrassed talking about her passions, fantasies and exploits.

17.  Devoting herself to a man after the first date.   (She plays the field with relish until a man shows he’s worthy of her)

18.  Being unappreciative to those she loves and all she has.

19.  Ignoring a man’s ego.  (A real Bitch appreciates it and works it for boths’ pleasure)

20.  When asked by someone “What’s new?”  She says “Not much.”

21.  Did I mention “whining?”


I know you checked off at least 15!  If not?  Then it’s the perfect time to take action and acquire of few more of these confidence building healthy habits!  Love, Goddess


For more ways to up the ante on your Sassy!

  1. These women were independent, beautiful and sassy:   Seductress
  2. Self Esteem Zappers
  3. Negative Emotions: Kicking Them to the Curb!

© S Stevens Life Strategies

Mata Hari: That Woman Knows How to Die

 Picture of Mata Hari from: http://boudoirqueen.typepad.com/my_weblog/

Pretty much everyone knows who Mata Hari was.  A woman convicted of being a spy in World War 1 and executed by firing squad.  I happened upon some information about her this weekend and I was shocked and inspired.  It’s something we can use when we face seemingly insurmountable odds.  I was inspired by the bravery, control and kick-assness she chose to go to her death.

On the morning of her execution, she carefully got ready.  She dressed to the nines.  Wearing a silk kimono, she put on her black silken stockings and her black high heeled slippers with beautiful silken ribbons.  She donned a matching black hat with silk ribbons, her long black hair coiled in braids beneath.  She put on her long, black, fir trimmed velvet cloak.  The last touch to her ensemble were long glamorous black gloves.  She turned to her companions and said, “I am ready.”

When she arrived at the firing squad, she was given a blindfold, which she refused.  She requested not to be tied to the firing pole.  She flirted, smiled and blew kisses to the soldiers who stood before her, rifles ready.  One man, according to an eye witness, passed out.  Another said, “That woman knows how to die.”

I was awestruck by how this woman died exactly the way she wanted to.  Gorgeously dressed in black, smiling into the eyes of her executioners.   She took the control from a situation that was hopeless.  Then I asked myself, could I do that?  Or even better, would any of us even think of being so courageous and brazen?  Would those empowering ideas even come to our minds?

Then I thought, okay.  This can really help us here at Bitch Lifestyle.  We have huge bumps and little bumps in our daily lives.  But none of us (hopefully!) will have to face a firing squad like Mata Hari.  So let’s make a pact.  Right here and now.  Let’s keep our strong, powerful, feminine Bitch firmly in charge.   Commit to taking care of ourselves and not taking crap from anyone.  Embrace being “out of the box” and create a new “shiny my brilliant way box.”  No one is going to mess with our party ladies.  Our choices.  It’s the one thing we have control over.  Our choices.  Practice this.  The next time something not so good happens, think of how you can make it your party.  Smile in the face of adversity and remember:  if Mata Hari can do this in front of a firing squad…I can certainly do A, B or C!  Love, Goddess

© S Stevens Life Strategies