Enthusiasm and the Gorgeous Bert Kreischer

Video of Bert Kreischer bringing much-needed fun to random couples in his new show “Trip Flip.”  http://www.travelchannel.com/video/ocean-adventures-in-the-keys 

I was listening to a radio interview this morning over morning coffee.   The interviewee was a man I’d never heard of.  A host on The Travel Channel named Bert Kreischer.  I instantly fell in love.  What turned me on?  His enthusiasm and zest for life.  How unbelievably grateful he was for all he had and what he attributed his success to.  Here it is:

“I don’t say no a lot.  If it sounds like a good time I’ll do it.”  Bert Kreischer

If you heard his initial background you would be like…oh…that so fits.   Bert Kreischers’ claim to fame in college was being featured as Rolling Stones’ “top partier” in the US from Florida State University.  It took him some time to earn this title too.  He didn’t earn it until his 6th YEAR of college.  In the interview he said that all he did was party.  There is even a YouTube of him getting his butt waxed.  His parents, understandably concerned.

What do I think he owes his success to?  His utter zest for life and eagerness to be playful and fun.  I’m sure he oodles charisma.  If I can fall in love with him on the radio in a couple short minutes?  I’m sure in person he is someone who you just want to be around.  He met Will Smith this way!  Think about those people you just love being around.  They have an infectious energy.  And to top it all off?  He has a lovely self-effacing humor.  That’s when you can make fun of yourself in the most charming way.  Bert talked about how his Dad would lecture him about how to be successful and a few years later he is riding around Italy in a Ferrari!  He gets the irony and he knows that the main reason why he is successful is LUCK.

And that sparkling fun enthusiastic about life personality.  Which led him to hosting Travel programs that send him all over the world…to have fun.

Man…I’m jealous!  I want us to have this kind of fun!  Is is possible?  Hell yeah!  I think my life is pretty damn fun.  I love helping people with Bitch Lifestyle.  In the next few days I have an improv show…one of my absolute passions.  I have lots of plans with friends and a fun trip planned to NYC.  So how fun do you think you are?  Do you own your sense of fun whatever that is?  It may not be on the scale of Berts’, but whatever it is that makes you ooze with fun, playful enthusiasm is worth putting at the top of the list!  What will happen if you, like Bert say “YES!” to anything that sounds like a good time? Hmmmmm…open yourself to the YES!

Love, Goddess

Steps to take that will help you ooze with fun and enthusiasm!

  1. Reading my book on Amazon:  Bitch Lifestyle the Manual
  2. Joining our Bitch Rebellion on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Bitch-Lifestyle/205875411841
  3. Private Courses with me!  http://bitchlifestyle.com/2012/07/your-re-awakening/

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Mae West – Truly Dangerous

Mae West-- She Done Him Wrong
Mae West image from a Certain Cinema: http://acertaincinema.pemomo.com/workspace/media/mae-west-wrong-2_opt.jpg

Mae West.  How much do you know about this Seductress of the past?  She was a Seductress until her death at eighty-seven.  She was considered truly scandalous and dangerous by her peers.  She was even fined $500.00 and sentenced to 10 days in jail for starring in the Broadway play “Sex.”  The crime?  Corrupting the morals of youth.  She loved sex and had no problem talking about it and having it whenever and with whomever she wanted.  Mae even created plays and revues about it.  No apologies.  She was exactly who she was.  No apologies.  She reveled in her life.  No apologies.

You know she loved this! Image from Farm3 on Flickr: http://farm3.staticflickr.com/2695/4380482410_f583a4f5b6_z.jpg?zz=1


  1. Young gorgeous man wanted to cook, clean and make love to her.  Even in her 70s and until the day she died.
  2. Mae had an endlessly entertaining wit and candor.
  3. She was a nightmare for the patriarchy:  the older woman unchained in every way.
  4. Forced out of Hollywood for her promiscuous ways and dominance of men.  Her reaction?  She already knew she was “a little too ahead of her time.”
  5. Mae had a voracious multi-orgasmic sex life.
  6. She saw “boundaries” as something that must be broken.  With relish.
  7. Colette, one of her admirers, said of Mae:  “This impudent woman alone does not experience the bitterness of an abandoned old woman.”  Think about that one…old age and all the negative social views associated with it:  Mae could have cared less.

Beyond sassy pic of Mae West from Funny Quotes from Famous People: http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-q7Dut7c17nQ/TqOpktri72I/AAAAAAAACYw/g5rl5_JBW9Y/s200/maewest.jpg



“I wrote the story myself. It’s about a girl who lost her reputation and never missed it.”

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”

“Marriage is a fine institution, but I’m not ready for an institution.”

“All discarded lovers should be given a second chance, but with somebody else.”

“Those who are easily shocked should be shocked more often.”

“I used to be Snow White, but I drifted.”

Living life this way takes a lot of courage, moxie and a HUGE sense of humor.  Which Mae had in droves.  Use this as a little inspiration for you.  Think of it this way.  The next time you want a free drink, meal, whatever, go get it.  I get these free all the time.  Say to yourself…it Mae West can laugh at Hollywood for rejecting and arresting her I should definitely be going for xyz!  So what is your excuse for not embracing every luscious drop of gorgeous you?  No excuses.  Honor Mae with a promise to get yours and live life exactly as who you are every minute of every day.  Love, Goddess

How to live life with abandon.  My book:  Bitch Lifestyle the Manual

How to live life with abandon.  Live courses with me:  http://bitchlifestyle.com/2012/07/your-re-awakening/

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Inappropriate Things to Say on a First Date

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Let’s have a little fun today.  What are some things you think should NEVER be said on a first date?  These are actual statements from people I’ve met.  Seriously.

  1. As you open the menu-I have expensive taste.  You’re buying, right?
  2. Will this take more than 2 hours?  I have another date at 10:00.
  3. Just to let you know…can you drop me off by like 10:00?  I’d like to go out after this.
  4. Wow…you remind me of my Daddy!
  5. Does this outfit make me look fat?
  6. I’m not eating much tonight.  I’m losing weight so I look good when we have sex.
  7. I want a baby.
  8. I have my period and the cramps are KILLING me!
  9. This place is boring.
  10. I’m bored.
  11. So, like I took the Cosmo compatibility test…and we are perfect for each other!
  12. When can you meet my parents this weekend?
  13. How much money do you make?
  14. What’s your name again?
  15. I don’t really read.  I watch a lot of TV though.
  16. I don’t really see the need for a portfolio or a budget.
  17. The last book I read was “How to Get a Guy to Marry You in 6 Weeks.”  It was fascinating.
  18. So…what is the LAST thing you want me to know about you and your family?
  19. Just so you know, I am on the pill.  Right now.
  20. My last relationship ended because he wouldn’t marry me.
  21. My last relationship ended because he didn’t want to make me pregnant.
  22. So how’s this going?  Do you like me?
  23. My ex-boyfriend is my BEST friend.
  24. My therapist says I have control issues.
  25. I pass gas and drool in my sleep.
  26. This is the best time I’ve had in such a long time!  I can’t remember the last time I went out!
  27. Wow.  That bartender over there is smokin’ hot.
  28. I saw how you looked at our waitress.  (Then stare at him with evil eyes)
  29. I don’t remember what happened on my last first date because I passed out.
  30. Hey!  Let’s do tequila shots!
  31. I love you.

Yes, I know people who have said similar things.  Have you said them?  If you have, chuckle over it and up the “mysterious you.” It’s all good.  I’m sure that in my younger years I said some really dumb things on a first date.  We all have.  Laughter is the best medicine right?  😉  Love, Goddess

Do you find yourself saying things like this or opening up too quickly to a man you’re dating?  Get this in check NOW!  

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Best Quote for Women EVER!

Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition. ~ Marilyn Monroe Quotes
Image from the fab web site Cute Picture Quotes: www.cutepicturequotes.com

Does this quote piss you off?

It is one of my favorites ever.  It is so dead on accurate.

Marilyn knew her power.  That’s just one of the reasons why women and men love her.

And why some women hate her.

Truth and the journey to find it is scary to some people.

The power is scary.

Not to a Sassy Bitch.

Embrace this quote beauties…from one of the Sassiest Bitches ever…Marilyn Monroe.


1.  Bitch Lifestyle on Facebook

2.  On Amazon:  Bitch Lifestyle the Manual

3.  Marilyn Monroe:  Ahead of Her Time

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