A Week of “Bs” Friday

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A week of Bs Friday:  Be Sensual.

I’m not sayin’ go on out there and hop on your boyfriend (as fun as that sounds) or some hot dude.  I’m talking in a way that is SO important to your Inner Bitch Goddess.  Be Sensual. First ideas on how then the why.  Ideas on how:

  • Light your favorite incense.  Relax in a position that is comfortable for you.  Close your eyes…breathe in the gorgeous scent.  Up the Sensuality:  How do you use all your senses for this?  Sight:  Before you close your eyes, dim the lights.  Enjoy the beautiful orange color of the lit incense.  Touch:  Wrap yourself up in your favorite fabric and enjoy the texture. Sound:  Enjoy the silence or play spa music.
  • Don’t just run out the door on your way to whatever you’re doing tonight.  Take a few moments and use all your senses.  Feel the weather, listen to sounds, etc.
  • How long do you usually dine?  Double it.  Savor the aromas, textures and visuals like the French do.
  • Enjoy your body while you do your Morning and Night Beauty Rituals.  Notice how soft your hair and skin is.  The sparkle in your eyes.  Find your least favorite body part and lavish extra care on it.  Find a way to adore it!

Why?  It’s all about the senses, Bitch Goddess. A key component to you becoming more deliciously aware:  A Week of “Bs” Wednesday:  Be Aware. Deliciously more feminine.  FEEL delicious from head to toe. That will radiate from deep within you and give you that little “je ne sais quoi.” That little “something” that is hard to explain and mysterious about you.  So get in there and enjoy the moment…Be Sensual.  Love, Goddess

Suggested Reading:

  1. The Big O:  What Men Think
  2. Getting Rid of a Guy Who is a Jerk
  3. Bitch Lifestyle Home

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A Week of “Bs” Tuesday

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A week of Bs Tuesday:  Be Active.  For all the single gals out there who are in love with a guy who has left them.  For all of you gorgeous women who have a guy that is not giving them attention, dating them, committing to them etc. etc.  This is for YOU.  Get your mind off him and back on you:

  • Join Meet Ups.  Fill your weekend with fun activities and meeting new people
  • Invite your girl friends to the Meet Ups you are attending
  • Go on a weekend getaway.
  • Join a club.
  • Plan the party of all parties this fall.
  • Join a fall sports league.
  • Get a part time job that is FUN for you.  Like hobbies?  Teach something at one of those workshops at Michael’s.
  • Make sure you have 3 NEVER fail meals you can make anytime, anywhere:  Breakfast, Lunch, Dinner.
  • Plan a trip to Paris.  Or wherever you have wanted to go.
  • Create your bucket list and rock that thing NOW.
  • Laugh:  Go see live comedy.

If you’re sitting around waiting for him to show up HE has power over you.  Say one big HELL NO to that and start having some serious fun!  Think about it hottie…read just ONE of the comments in this post: Let a Man Chase You Here’s How  and let it anger you.  If it doesn’t anger you?  You have bigger problems…consider coaching with me ASAP:  You’re Re-Awakening.  The biggest gift you can give to yourself is your pleasure and control over who you love. Who you love is a gift to them.  If they can’t appreciate it … please forget them! They are not worthy of hot little you.  Enough now.  Now go on out there and Be Active!  Love, Goddess

Suggested Reading:

  1. Play it Forward
  2. Inappropriate Things to Say on a First Date
  3. Best Quote for Women EVER
  4. Bitch Lifestyle Home

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A Week of “Bs”

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A week full of “Bs.”  Huh?  A week full of ways to get your motor running again.  Or make it purr…keep it going or rock yourself even more.

Today, Monday, is THE most important day.  On the top of your schedule I want you to put the words “Be Pleasured” with a line next to it. For each and every day this week.  If you are the really studious type?  For every single day this month.   Each night before you go to bed I want you to do the following:

  • Give yourself some time to savor the experience.  Put on your moisturizer slower than slow…light a candle, listen to sexy, soothing music…whatever relaxed you.
  • Savor the thought of doing something nice for your fine self.  Savor savor savor.
  • Mix it up…the stand bys are great but discover new things to love.  Experiment with a new hobby, food, music, work out routine…play!
  • Play…just play with this thought:  Things that you never thought you would do:  Do any intrigue you?

Example:  My Monday “Be Pleasured” is slow stretching.  I just don’t make time to do this.  Even when I exercise, really.  And it feels so good when I do.  So in the morning I’m going to give myself a nice long stretching session.  Before and after working out.

So what are your ideas?  Please get on it.  Right now.  And PLEASE share.  Your ideas will help us all “Be Pleasured.” See you tomorrow…Love, Goddess.

Suggested Reading:

  1. Loving Your Lady Parts
  2. Confidence:  Signs You’re a Sassy Bitch
  3. Bitch Lifestyle Home

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Declutter

Declutter

 

 

Declutter Bitch!

I know.  You hate me.  You only hate me because you know I’m right.  I feel your pain because I need to do it too! Declutter the clutter…both organizationally and personally.

Admit it.  You have junk to get rid of.  Whether it be an object that reminds you of an old boyfriend, stuff you no longer use or a box full of crap you “may need at a later date.”  I mean…how many pens do you really need? I say that because I just threw out a box of old ones that didn’t even work!  So let’s get to it.

Take a deep breath, beauty…and trash it!

  • Crap you haven’t used in years.  Or ever used.  Pens, nail polish, magazines, knick knacks.  Just throw them!
  • Crap in your kitchen that you haven’t used.  Like that artichoke pate that sounded so good that you bought 8 years ago.  (I just threw one out…ewww)
  • Clothes you haven’t worn.  Or worn in years.  Or clothes that are/were favorites of yours that have holes in them that are beyond repair.
  • Gifts from an old boyfriend.
  • Your inbox.  Unsubscribe to anything that isn’t truly necessary.
  • Contacts in your address book that you never see, hurt you or dated that you MUST delete.
  • Old technology.  You have the replacements.  Get rid of it!
  • Beauty Junkies:  stuff for your skin you never use.
  • Your car: Clean out your glove compartment and replace with travel essentials.

Why?  As a sign to the Universe that you are over it.  You are ready to move on.  Invite new things, new loves, experiences into your life and home.  You are done with what the “old clutter” represents.  You want the NEW!!!!!

Great Goddess.  Not so easy.

Just start.  One box.  One room.  One little area that needs your undivided “declutter attention.”  Eventually the whole house will be cleansed of your clutter. Baby steps to proceed to the whole project being done!  With each little piece of clutter you dispose of you take weight off of you.  A little bit here and there and you will feel lighter and freer.  Doesn’t that sound cool?

So go ahead beauty…chip away each day at a little clutter in your life.  You will be thankful.  Gotta go and clear my inbox now.  Love, Goddess

Suggested Reading:

  1. What are the Health Benefits of Meditation?
  2. Test Drive a Relationship?
  3. Bitch Lifestyle the Manual

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