Picture of the delicate, unique and pinkaliscious orchid from Bees on the Brain: http://writingeveryday.wordpress.com/2009/01/23/we-have-orchid-function/orchid_090123/

How much do you adore your clitoris?  Your vulva?  Every delicate fold of your beautiful pussy?  Did your jaw drop at my bluntness?  It’s okay.  Women don’t really talk about their pussies.  My question is…why?  It’s not considered “lady like.”  Here we are.  With this amazing thing called a “clitoris” that is designed for one thing.  To rock your body with pleasure and it’s not considered “lady like” to talk about it.  Well…as a lady, I say we get talking.  And loving.  And adoring the fact that we have something that can make us feel SO good.

Two things got me thinking about our gorgeous feminine folds.

1. Guys are so darned proud of their cocks.  Right?  They even name them.  You know how they like to talk to you through their cocks?  Their cock always has a swagger and a deeper voice then they do.  Usually followed by a HUGE smile from him.  He’s so proud of the way his cock just talked to you.  LOL.
2. The other day I was with a group of people and someone had written the words “Happy Vagina Day”  on a chalkboard.  One of the girls erased it because she was a little embarrassed and thought it was inappropriate.  Of course me…I’m thinking…”Yes!  What a great idea!  Happy Vagina Day!”

So I thought I’d come up with a Sassy Bitches’ 3 Part “Lady Like” Plan to Loving her Lady Parts.  Here we go:

Step One:  We are going to stop being so “lady like.”  I’m not asking you to go run around the neighborhood showing off your pussy.  I’m just asking you to warm up to it a little.  Adore her a little.  Trim her and pamper her like you would any other part of your body.  As you like.  Maybe give the hair down there a moisture masque.  Trim her into a little heart.  Does your man come up to you and talk to you through his cock?  Well, answer back.  Go up to him and whisper in his ear “My pussy has something she wants to tell you.”

Watch his jaw drop.  Then take a moment and tell him what Pussy would like him to do.  Okay…that is a bit advanced Bitch.

Step Two:  Educate Yourself.  Read up.

1. Junk? Try Diamonds!  http://bitchlifestyle.com/2010/07/junk-try-diamonds/
2. Dell Williams:  A Sexual Pioneer for Women:  http://bitchlifestyle.com/2010/09/dell-williams-a-sexual-pioneer-for-women/
3. The “Cuddle Hormone.”  http://bitchlifestyle.com/2011/04/the-cuddle-hormone-2/
4. Do a google search on her.  Search for the term “yoni.”

Step Three:  Bitch it up by buying yourself a gorgeous orchid.  Make it a beautiful symbol and reminder to take as careful care of this plant as you do YOU.

Love, Goddess

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Sassy Anne Taintor pic from the web site Planet Stef:  http://stephscott.wordpress.com/

“Inner Beauty won’t get you laid.”

I saw that quote somewhere and yeah, it’s all in Bitchy fun.  I so disagree.  Inner Beauty is your hot sensual driving force of seduction.  It’s the driving force of your success and happiness in life.  It  is so powerful sometimes the world tries to suppress our power.  http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/embrace-our-sexual-organs/  Because, like the playful woman in the pic above, you can be as nice as you want or as naughty as you want.  (sassy wink)  So lets discuss just how sexy our inner beauty is:

1. It’s your luscious brain that decides YOU want to be your best possible YOU. Your inner and outer self.
2. It’s your luscious brain that trains your voice and how you use it in every possible circumstance:  Career, debate, seduction.
3. It’s your luscious brain that listens to someones’ words with a healthy dose of skepticism.  Because it’s protecting the heart and soul from distrust by waiting for the action to back up the words.
4. It’s your luscious brain that encourages curiosity, discovery and adventure to feed the heart and soul.
5. It’s your heart that skips a beat when you find the perfect pair of shoes that make you feel oh so sexy in.
6. It’s your heart that warms when your eyes enjoy a beautiful sunrise or sunset.
7. It’s your heart that warms when you give to someone and it makes them smile.
8. It’s your heart that makes you appreciate all that is around you.
9. It’s your heart that sends out love and playful joy to all those around you-and warms their hearts.
10. It’s your soul that awakens on that early morning work out session when you feel re=charged.
11. It’s your soul that doesn’t try to limit your choices.  Because your soul knows that the heart and mind are working for it to create the perfection in every moment.
12. It’s your soul, upon awakening to another precious day that happily looks forward to all the delicious opportunities and pleasures that await you.
13. It’s your brain and heart working together to lovingly call someone on their crap.  To save the soul from the spiritually draining feelings of inadequacy and insecurity.
14. It’s your brain, heart and soul working together on many different levels that make your Sassy Bitch tick and purr and walk around the piles of shit that surround us every day.

Because you are in your Sassy Inner Bitch you don’t see all the piles of shit.  You see the good around you.  You enthusiastically face challenges with determination.  Because you know that your brain, heart and soul are aligned.  You aren’t even aware of how attractive and magnetic this is.  Your inner beauty gives you that confidence, that glow.  And makes you the irresistible, dynamic force that you are!

Further Reading:

1. Dell Williams:  A Sexual Pioneer for Women:  http://bitchlifestyle.com/2010/09/dell-williams-a-sexual-pioneer-for-women/
2. Hail to the V:  http://bitchlifestyle.com/2011/09/hail-to-the-v/

Let’s discuss on Facebook:  All the gifts of our inner beauty:  https://www.facebook.com/pages/Bitch-Lifestyle/205875411841

© S Stevens Life Strategies

I had the most amazingly sensual experience today.  And it had nothing to do with a man.

Not that I don’t like sensual experiences with a man (sly smile).   I had been doing some yard work and it’s scorching hot out.  I went inside to wash my hands.  The cool water felt so good on my hands.  So I splashed a little on my forearms.  Then my face, back of the neck…it was addicting!  I thought to myself “Oooohhh this is so simple but it’s exactly what I need.”  Normally, I may have gone off to tackle another chore.  I almost did.  LOL.  So I slowed way down.  It was heaven.  So make a slice of heaven for yourself during this heat wave.  Here is your Sensuality Assignment today at Bitch University.

The next time you have been outside and are way over heated.  Get yourself to the faucet!

1. Slowly let the water run over your lower arms.
2. Splash your face with the cold water.  Let it run down your face and neck.
3. Run the cool water through your hair slower than slow.  Close your eyes and enjoy it!
4. Put some water in your hands and let it run on over the back of your neck.  You may want to enjoy that one over and over!
5. Cup some water in your hands and splash on your ears.  I forgot how hot that area gets on a humid day and it felt like pure heaven!
6. Let the cool water trickle down your back.  Mmmm…
7. Repeat…slower than slow.  Close your eyes and enjoy!

Love, Goddess

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“She took possession of a man if she touched him with her fingers.”  This, of course, would lead to rapture—the tips of her fingers—fully sensate and aware, taking you in and touching you as if her fingers had never touched before, so that you yourself begin to experience touch as something entirely new.  From The Book of the Courtesans by Susan Griffin

Wow, huh?  The Courtesan Alice Ozy sure knew how to touch.  What passion!  It made me start thinking about passion in my life.  I have many different passions.  Sometimes, though, these passions take up so much time that I don’t fully feel them.  I’m too busy.  So slowly, over time, I take less time to touch, taste, feel, hear.  And my lively passion seems to dim a bit.

Then I read that small passage about the power of touch.  The pleasure it can bring up and my passion reawakens.  How the Courtesan took her passion-and the man through touch.  She was relishing the moment and he was the lucky benefactor.  So let’s relish a bit today…reawaken our precious passion!

1. Slowly caress your skin.  Notice how soft the skin is on front of your arms.  Don’t be afraid to touch any part of your body.  Enjoy the softness of your skin.
2. When you brush your hair, slow way down.  Notice the texture, the shine, how it moves and smells.
3. The next time you are outside, pick a blade of grass.  Swipe it slowly across your nose.  Does it tickle?  Brush it against your skin.
4. The next time you pet an animal, really enjoy it.  The softness, the difference between the fur on its back and tummy.
5. You’ll need help with this one   Find the most ticklish spot on you and your mate.  What are the tickles that make you giggle STOP!?  The ones that make you go ooooohhhh….”
6. Your clothes:  What materials feel the best to you against your skin?
7. Dine with your fingers.
8. Take your shoes off and walk in the grass, the sand, the pavement.
9. Skinny dip and notice how wonderful the water feels caressing your skin.

I think that’s a good way to end it!  Please share your “Reawaken Passion” touch ideas here:

Love, Goddess

***Gorgeous manicure and pedicure from Lydian Flash, Master Nail Technician http://www.lydianflash.com/

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There may be a biological reason why women may be prone to “bonding” with men after having sex.  Why once we sleep with a man we really like we cling to him a bit tighter, start thinking “relationship” or “where is this going.”  It’s a hormone that our bodies release naturally:  Oxytocin.  There isn’t a lot of information on this hormone, but what I found was intriguing and thought I would pass it on to you, hotties.  I found this interesting info on the Wellness Blog http://www.wellness.com/blogs/happyspouse/6318/the-link-between-the-hormone-oxytocin-and-female-orgasm-bonding-and-attachment/dawn-michael-sex-counselor

Oxytocin is a powerful hormone released by men and women during orgasm. It probably deepens the feelings of attachment and makes couples feel much closer to one another after they have had sex. The theory goes that the more sex a couple has, the deeper their bond becomes.  Oxytocin also seems to help cement the strong bond between mum and baby and is released during childbirth.  The hormone is naturally released in response to a variety of environmental stimuli including nipple stimulation in lactating women, and uterine or cervical stimulation during sex, or as the result of a baby moving down the birth canal.

Interesting, no?  I’m giving you this information to be aware of.  I’ve discovered that I feel much safer, more turned on, and relaxed when I get to know a man and trust him before I get intimate.  And when I’m all these things, I do love a nice cuddle with the man who makes me feel this way.  Do you?  Or are you immune to the effects of oxytocin flowing in your veins.  I have a follower on Facebook who hates to cuddle after sex with her husband.  Her husband loves to!  How cute, huh?  The roles are switched.  Most women I know LOVE to cuddle.

I’m hoping that more research is devoted to this very interesting hormone.  While we await, see how your luscious body reacts to it, see how much “pre-bonding” you need to do before you get intimate with a man.  Maybe you can love em’ and leave em.’  Oh!  And PLEASE do share.  Our collective research is ooooooh sooooo important!  Love, Goddess

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What have you done for your sensuality lately, hotties?  Read any books, admired your luscious feminine core and her beauty?  Slow danced to your favorite music until you start to glow?

It’s tough to remember to do all the time.  I’m coming back full swing (and that pun just sorta came out!) this weekend.  I”m taking a workshop with the fabulous Sheri Winston.  Ms. Winston wrote the book “Women’s Anatomy of Arousal.”  A friend has invited her into her home and a bunch of us girls are going to be taking her 8 hour work shop together.  A full day of learning about our sensuality.  Yay!  Need some encouragement to do the same?

At the beginning of her book Ms. Winston includes an excerpt of “A Woman Waits For Me,” by Walt Whitman.  This is the part I loved the most:

Without shame the man I like knows and avows the deliciousness of his sex,
Without shame the woman I like knows and avows hers.

Mmmmmmm…rather hot, no?

It’s tough being stuck in this world where some cultures cover up our sexuality, exploit our sexuality or try to make us feel dirty: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2010/07/junk-try-diamonds/.  Take the power back from these sources by laying claim to your sexuality. Women have an organ, the clitoris, that was created for one thing:  pleasure to rock our bodies!  What a gift!  It’s up to us to stop all the negative noise and take pride in our pleasure organ.  So what are you going to do today to OWN your sexuality?

1. Get a book, like Sheri Winston’s “Women’s Anatomy of Arousal.”  (In Bitch Boutique above) Read and enjoy.
2. Celebrate your sensuality.  Write yourself a poem, or find a song to dance to.
3. Examine her physically-up close and personal.  (Sheri’s book will help you there!)
4. Know what you adore.  In bed.  To Taste.  To Hear.  To see.  What touch sets you afire. (soft materials, how to have a man touch you)  And then practice communicating it and enjoying it.
5. Check out hot info I’ve posted on the site:  A Big Biological difference between the sexes: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/embrace-your-sexual-organs/  Embrace our Sexual Organs: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/embrace-our-sexual-organs/ and Dell Williams sexual pioneer for women: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2010/09/dell-williams-a-sexual-pioneer-for-women/

NO SHAME!!!

Your sensuality and orgasms are so worth it!  Share ideas on here and on our Facebook page:  https://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Bitch-Lifestyle/205875411841   Love, Goddess

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 Picture from faithmcguire.blogspot.com

I was called a slut once in middle school by a girl after I kissed a guy she also liked at a school assembly. She wasn’t happy about it so she called me the one name she believed would be the most stinging. Slut. Perhaps it would have been insulting a generation prior but it was 1993 and being a slut had actually become rather chic for some of us.

Fourteen years and dozens of sexual conquests later I’m a big proponent of sex-positive feminism or ‘Stiletto Feminism,’ a movement born from the turbulent social and sexual upheavals of the 1960s that flourished in the 1980s and 90s as a back-lash against the conservative movement that endeavors to put limits on what women can and cannot do sexually. Broken down to its core component, sex-positive feminism’s message is a woman’s sexuality can and should be used not only for her pleasure but also her benefit if needed.

An article from 2000 in Time  featuring the cast of Sex and the City drew some positive attention to this phenomenon as did an episode of The West Wing. The August 2000 issue of George magazine also featured it, calling this a “new kind of feminism.” It described the “Stiletto Feminist” as the woman who “embraces expressions of sexuality that enhances rather than detracts from women’s freedom.” Dr. Susan Hopkins, a lecturer in The School of Journalism and Communication at the University of Queensland, wrote a cultural analysis of the contemporary archetype of the stiletto feminist in popular culture in her book Girl Heroes. Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt took the subject head on in their wildly popular book The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities. To be fair, the movement was criticized in a book titled Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and the Rise of Raunch Culture. All are excellent reads providing different perspectives of sex-positive feminism.

And those of us who have embraced the tenets of this, knowingly or unknowingly, have apparently been smart about it. At the same time HBO’s Sex and the City was becoming a phenomena, sexually provocative female pop stars were burning up the airwaves, and virginity was becoming an afterthought, something curious happened: Unplanned teenage pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease rates dropped overall. You can credit great parenting, good government policy, effective ad campaigns from Trojan, or the fact that women were (finally) in charge of their own poonannies for the positive statistics, but one thing was certain – women knew what was at stake with their freedoms and weren’t going to blow it like some nervous fumbling girl enamored with her high school’s star quarterback.

A generation of young women (I dare say two generations because this movement began in the 60s) have found the courage to do what men have been doing forever: Fuck with wild abandon. After all, Ernest Hemingway famously said, “What is moral is that you feel good after and what is immoral is that you feel bad after.” And I’m here to tell you it feels good.

And that attitude isn’t without evolutionary and generational causes. Women have been taught since the dawn of recorded history that our sexuality is a commodity to be bargained with and exchanged for security within a marriage. If some women throw those norms out the window, the reasoning goes, they cheapen the supply. Men will be less likely to provide security for women if they can get what they’re seeking free somewhere else – or so we’ve been taught. So women, based on something ingrained in their minds by societal norms, will naturally try to offset what they see as the devaluation of their ‘product’ by undermining sexually confident women.

Of course, it isn’t only women who are condemning other women’s sexuality. In male-dominated societies, female sexuality has always been feared. One of the earliest myths in Judaism is of Lilith, Adam’s first wife, who was banished from the Garden of Eden for being on top in a sexual encounter with Adam. Notice the sin wasn’t the sex itself but rather the woman was on top of the man rather than beneath him. Theories persist today that the forbidden fruit that Eve tempted Adam with was actually a metaphor for having sex for reasons other than procreation. One of the first laws in recorded history calls for stoning to death any woman who has had sex with more than one man.

Consider also some of the double standards our daughters are subjected to. Men who sleep with a variety of women, moving from one conquest to the next, are often admired while women who engage in the same behavior are considered whores. Rape victims are sometimes blamed for their own assaults because of the way they were dressed, obviously meaning they were asking for it. Many insurance plans will cover Viagra but not the birth control pill. Some pharmacies refuse to honor prescriptions for the birth control pill unless the female can prove she’s married. And on the topic of the pill, a controversy brewing in England right now is whether teen girls should be given access to it over the counter while at the same time teen boys have been buying condoms unhindered for years.

Ley explains that female sexual freedom throughout the history of the world ties directly to the economic independence enjoyed by women in any given society. Among the Inuit, where women have sexual freedoms comparable to the men of their society, the women traditionally oversee the family’s economy. The government of ancient Sparta, where women were allowed to own land, wrote laws protecting women’s sexual freedom. Among the Islamic culture in 19th Century Morocco, wealthy women often engaged in flagrant affairs, protected from their husband’s anger by the fact that family’s wealth was in the wife’s name, inherited from her family. In 18th- and 19th-century Italy, women had a Cicisbeo or Cavalier Servente, a lover and servant who had “privileged” access to her.  In today’s Western world, as women’s economic status has risen, so have the rates of female infidelity, and, not incidentally, the attention to female sexual satisfaction within heterosexual relationships. (translation: guys are trying much harder to make us happy in the bedroom).

A book that takes on the practical application of sex-positive feminism is The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt. It is credited with raising awareness of the possibility of consensual non-monogamy as a lifestyle, and providing practical guidance on how such long term relationships work and are put into practice.  The authors define the term slut as “a person… who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you.” The term is reclaimed from its usual use as an insult and is used to signify a person who is accepting of their enjoyment of sex and the pleasure of intimacy with others. The book discusses how to live an active life with multiple concurrent sexual relationships.

“I’m a tiny person with a big mouth.”  Dell Williams

Dell Williams is one of my heros.   Talk about breaking barriers!  Her success is based on huge amounts of courage, tenacity and intellectual curiosity.

1.  She worked as an actress for years and then enlisted in the army in 1945.  Because she was an actress, she was assigned to work with an Entertainment Officer.  He gave her the arduous duty of moving around a piano.  After a week of performing this duty,  she marched up to the major’s office and told him: ‘Look, I don’t mind about having to move the piano, but those two singers just aren’t good enough to entertain our troops.  These men have already been wounded enough.  I told him what he ought to do was to call upon some of the members of the company who had real experience in show business-there were enough of us to pull together a really bang-up revue. ’  She was transferred out of that office. (snicker)  Eventually she  produced and performed in a daily radio show and “bang-up revues” overseas for the soldiers.

2.  She wanted to be an accountant.  She was told “women couldn’t be accountants.”  She became hugely successful in one of the biggest accounting firms in New York City.

3.  She took a class on sexuality taught by actress Betty Dodson.  After class, she decided to go out and buy her own “Magic Wand.”  She went to Macy’s and the sales boy asked her nosy questions.  From the book:  ” I left Macy’s that day, clutching my precious, anonymous brown shopping bag and thinking: someone really ought to open up a store where women can buy one of these things without some kid asking her what she’s going to do with it.”

So she created Eve’s Garden in her kitchen.  It has evolved into a wonderful educational store where women can explore every facet of their sensuality.  I recently visited her store in New York City and loved it!  There are all sorts of toys (wink) and a wonderful reading room full of books and information.  I had a ball exploring.  http://evesgarden.com/shop/

How did I learn about my hero, Dell?  I was taking a class in New York City for women.  So was Dell.  The subject of women’s sexuality came up.  Dell stood and said, “We have to love our asses!”  She is so right.  Her feisty passion for women and building our strength awe inspiring.  She was relieved to be in a room with women who could carry on her mission. She was no longer one of the fighting few.  She knew her mission and passion for us owning our sensuality would continue to move on, even after she was gone.  The weight of her mission and relief that it would continue was evident in her body.  It was a poignant moment I’ll never forget.

In her biography, ” Revolution in the Garden” Dell writes this on her Dedication page:

It has long been my unassailable belief that orgasmic women can change the world.  By this I mean that a woman who is unfettered sexually is unfettered politically, socially, economically and she is unstoppable.  I dedicate this book to all of us who are in the process of rediscovering our sexual, essential, unstoppable selves.

I’m dedicating the “Sensuality” portion of this blog to her.   To a woman who is courageous, tenacious and believes that life long curiosity and willingness to learn can help keep your mind, body and spirit youthful.  To a woman who has endured personal attacks and picketing so women could have a place to go and educate themselves about their sexuality.  I’ve put a link in the Bitch Boutique for her autobiography “Revolution in the Garden.”  To quote Dell: ’ How a nice Jewish Girl from the Bronx ended up owning a sex toy store.’   Thank you Dell for all you have done for women’s sensuality!  Huge hug and orgasmic kiss! Love, Goddess

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Lust.  One of the seven deadly sins.  Let’s discover lust in all her naughty glory.  I’m not asking you to go out and commit a sin.  I want you to play with the word a bit.  Or rather, it’s definition.  I was researching “lust” on the web and found this to describe “lust.”

Lustful – vigorously passionate  wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

And I got turned on.  Not so much on the “vigorously,” but the “passionate.”  http://bitchlifestyle.com/2010/03/passionately-curious/  So I started thinking about lust and passion.  The first thing I thought about was dark chocolate.  Not sex.  And how I need some.  Not sex.  LOL…but some seriously dark chocolate.  How much I longed to savor the rich taste slowly melting in my mouth.  Mmmmmm….!  Does that mean I just sinned?  No way.  I was enjoying one of the incredible things in this beautiful world we live in.  Does it mean I’m going to vigorously pursue this?  No.  I’ve got a busy day.  But maybe later on tonight. 

Let’s play with “lust” a bit more.  Be a bit more naughty in the most fun way.  I’m going to create a “Lust List.”  Wanna create one with me?  Here’s mine…a few things that came off the top of my head:

1.  I lust for the taste of dark chocolate slowly melting in my mouth.

2.  I lust for success.  Success for my ultimate goal:  spreading fun, laughter and play worldwide.

3.  I lust for the fun of football season.  The start of fantasy football, the exciting highs and lows during a game that only NFL Football gives me in a sport.

4.  I lust for laughing so hard I almost can’t breathe.  You know what I mean?  It’s like you are standing on a balance beam.  On one side is the laughter, you can’t stop.  But if you don’t stop, you’ll fall into the pit on the other side of the beam.   It feels so good yet so bad!

5.  I lust for more passion because it leads to more appreciation for everything I have and every drop of life I can get.

How about you?  Would you like to play?  Create a little list.  Perhaps before you go to bad.  Turn off the light and enjoy the thoughts.   The possibilities.  Notice how much better it feels to ground yourself into what feels good instead of the drama, worries and troubles you face everyday.  http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/09/turn-worry-into-fun/ Practice injecting it into your day.  When I do this, it’s amazing how the things I lust for come to me.  And I’m so grateful for it.  Lust, passion and joy opens up unknown worlds of discovery.  Please share your lust list.  It would be so awesome to discover new things together!  Love, Goddess

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‘Boys tryna touch my junk…’ Kesha

When I heard this line in the popular song “Tik Tok,” my mouth dropped to the South pole.  Junk?  This is the new way women refer to their sexual organs and, or feminine parts?  Whatever happened us celebrating them like Maya Angelou-who refers to hers as “diamonds in the center of her thighs?”  Would you like to learn the origin of one of the most dirty and negative words in the English language?  Cunt=anatomical jewel. 

That should really make your jaw drop.  So should this:

From “Cunt: A Declaration of Independence,” the book by Inga Muscio:  ‘I looked up “cunt” in Barbara G. Walker’s twenty-five year research opus “The Women’s Encyclopedia of Myths and Secrets,” and found it was in a title, back in the day.  “Cunt” is related to words from India, China, Ireland, Rome and Egypt.  Such words were either titles of respect for women, priestesses and witches, or derivatives of the names of various goddesses.  The words bitch and whore also share a similar fate in our English language.  This seemed rather fishy to me.  Three words which convey negative meanings about women, specifically, all happen to have once had totally positive associations about women, specifically.’

And now “junk” has been added to the list.  Our society has thought up a trendy, cool way to refer to our sexual organs.  And it’s a synonym for garbage.  What a great way to degrade and diminish us.  (insert my feisty sarcasm here) Oh, really…think that is going to work?  (more feisty sarcasm)   Let’s get back to our diamonds.  Yours, mine and the worlds.  Because ladies, nothing is going to change this mentality unless we do.  That’s why when someone calls you a “bitch” I want you to give them a big smile and say “thank you.”  Because it’s honoring our ancestors and the original respect that word was given to woman.  And we’re bringing it back!  We are going to party with our hot, sexy diamonds and jewels!

Mama Gena does this very thing in her book “Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts.”  (Get the link to this wonderful book in the Bitch Boutique top right)  She has a whole chapter on “The Womanly Art of Sensual Pleasure.”  I highly recommend this book.  It will change how you look at your sensuality forever.  Check out the related reading below for even more ideas and incite.  So go out there and do woman kind a favor:  Celebrate the beauty of your beautiful feminine core.  And kiss Kesha and her idea of femininity to the curb!  Love, Goddess

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Related Reading:

1.  Embrace Our Sexual Organs: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/embrace-our-sexual-organs/

2.  Embrace Your Sexual Organs-Hot New Info! http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/embrace-your-sexual-organs/

3.  When Do You Feel Most Beautiful? http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/when-do-you-feel-most-beautiful/