Bitch Lifestyle » Bitch Rules http://bitchlifestyle.com Love every drop of gorgeous you! Tue, 27 Jul 2010 15:16:47 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 Command Respect! http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/07/command-respect/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=command-respect http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/07/command-respect/#comments Tue, 28 Jul 2009 18:11:54 +0000 Goddesspower http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=362  
Do you command respect? I‘m talking in all aspects of your life: at work and at home, with family and friends. Do you have a set of life rules that you live by? When your rules are disrespected by someone, do you call them on it politely but firmly? The Bitch does. The Bitch knows that by loving herself and calling someone on their disrespect, problems are solved faster.
 
1. Setting up life rules commands respect for yourself and of others.
2. Your life rules make the choices you make easier.

The Bitch knows that her rules may change over time. She knows that it’s important to study and practice them:

Old Life rule: I treat everyone with love and respect.

Problem: I discovered I wasn’t giving myself the same loving patience I give others. http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/05/impatiencea-virtue/ I now expect the same patience from those I care about for me. This led to refining that life rule and morphing it into a Bitch Rule:

Bitch Rule: My family, friends and acquaintances treat me with the same loving patience and understanding that I honor them with.  I honor myself by treating me with the same loving actions.

Over time, as you respect yourself more, pleasurable things begin to happen. I love having doors opened for me wherever I go. I discovered how much I loved this respectful behavior from men and this action multiplied. Friends notice and comment on it. They say “that never happens to me.“ I tell them it would if you desire and enjoy it.

Respect for yourself multiplies in other areas, too. I don’t get hurt or angry any more from random disrespect. I communicate much more effectively my displeasure. If someone is having a bad day, it’s not my fault. Why take it personally? Taking random disrespect personally is a time waster. There are so many other things to enjoy!

Today’s assignment: Create your list of Bitch Rules. How you would like to be treated by everyone you encounter and love? Put your Bitch Rules on gorgeous paper and print them out. Post them somewhere so everyone can see them. Practice them daily and take notes. Review them in a few weeks. Do you want to make changes or additions? Continue the process until they make you feel amazing and free.
 
I would love to hear what your life rules are, ladies! Please share.  Love, Goddess
 
 
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]]> http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/07/command-respect/feed/ 2 Bitch Rule #1: Love Yourself. With Abandon! http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/05/bitch-rule-1-love-yourself-with-abandon/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=bitch-rule-1-love-yourself-with-abandon http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/05/bitch-rule-1-love-yourself-with-abandon/#comments Sat, 30 May 2009 16:48:16 +0000 Goddesspower http://bitchlifestyle.com/?p=130 Bitch Rule #1:  Love Yourself.  With Abandon!  Every delicious, naughty, amazing ounce of you. 

Bitch Rule #2:  We will not compete with other women.  This forum is a place where we can support, cheer, and turn each other on with our individual sense of fun, play and laughter.

Bitch Rule #3:  We will not judge each other here.   The path to falling completely in love with ourselves takes some unexpected turns.  We support each other and love the discoveries!

Bitch Rule #4:  We treat our bodies like the gorgeous vessels they are.  Our skin, organs, lips, brain, hair, limbs and luscious pussies are celebrated.  Every inch.  We are beautiful!

Bitch Rule #5:  We love our girlfriends and stay faithful always!  We do not break dates with them when our new guys call us last minute.  Or change plans with them if he wants to do something.  Our time with our girlfriends is sacred.  We keep that time when we start seeing a new man, have a boyfriend or get married.  Yay girlfriends!

Bitch Rule #5:  We are grateful and appreciate what we have everyday.  Our families, friends, men, careers, children, pets, plants and our luscious bodies.  (There is so much to appreciate!  Thank you Universe!!)

Bitch Rule #6:  We revel in our power to attract as women.  We are attractors.   Magnets. 

Bitch Rule #7:  We understand that a lot of men don’t understand what we want.   The sexes communicate in such different ways.   Here we will learn how to communicate in a way to make them understand what we want.  We will do so in a loving and patient way.

And there is so much more fun to come…

Love, Goddess

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