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When someone asks a Sassy Bitch what’s new she wouldn’t be caught dead saying “Not much.”

Sometimes we don’t think what is going on in our lives is very exciting.  And sometimes, yes, day to-day life doesn’t seem that exciting.  Or is it?  Every single day we, as Sassy Bitches, are working toward something.  Something fulfilling and amazing.  For US.  Sometimes these things take more than one step.  We’re still working toward our fulfillment.  So get passionate about that!  Sell that to the world!  Be proud of your dreams, passions, goals, discoveries.

Sometimes just the fact that we had a chance to pamper ourselves a bit is WAY exciting.  LOL.  Or relaxing for just a moment is a slice of heaven.  Be passionate and appreciative about that.  Share those moments of heaven and sell it to whoever is asking.  That passion and enjoyment is infectious.  So even if that Sassy Bitch is just thrilled with her new beef stew recipe and you hate beef stew?  Bitch has passion for the cooking.  The creating.  The process.  The love she puts into it will bring enjoyment to all those who get to savor her passion.  Even those who may not find it thrilling.

Are you proud of your passions?  Do you find yourself not talking about them because they don’t seem as exciting as some things?  Is your hobby crafting and your best friends’ is sky diving?  Who gives a whoop.  Embrace your passions, or find and cherish them.  That which is exciting to you will rock your world.  And you will rock those whom you encounter.

I love crossword puzzles.  Especially the huge challenging Sunday crossword puzzles!  Is that a passion?  Yeah.  Is it one of my more exciting ones to a lot of people?  Nah.  I can totally understand why a lot of people would find the thought of sitting around doing a crossword puzzle boring.  I love it.  I pour myself a nice glass of wine, get ready for bed, sink into my pillows and start solving.  Sometimes I don’t do very well.  Other times I rock that puzzle.  I love it because it satisfies my need to slow down and my need to keep thinking.  It turns my intellectual side on.

So your assignment today is to embrace your ‘less than exciting” “what’s new.”  If someone ask you what is new in your life remember your everyday passions.  Take pride in them.  Allow yourself to ooze with happiness over them.   Every time you take a moment to savor and love even the smallest passion without excuse, it makes you stronger, happier and charismatic.  A true Sassy Bitch can make watching paint dry fun!  Love, Goddess

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We are Sassy Bitches.

We stand up for ourselves, each other and those we love.

We are strong.

We know exactly what we want and how we want it.

We communicate in a confident, charming, bottom line type of way no matter the venue.

  With our families, friends, co-workers, enemies and lovers.

We are outspoken and determined.

Communicating effectively is an art and we’ve worked hard to master this ability.

  When people don’t like what we have to say or are insulting, we aren’t intimidated into doing something we don’t want to do.

We don’t lie down and take abuse, disrespect or nonsense from anyone.  We either call them on it or refuse to engage in it.

We take care of ourselves.  We take that time because when we are happy, we can make everyone else happy!  It takes courage to own our Sassy Feminine Bitch in our world today.

And we over flow with courage.

We embrace our unique beauty and talents.

Excuses bore us.  Action turns us on!

We stand up and fight for the women who haven’t seen their power yet.

And to anyone who tries to diffuse our inner flames, our burning desires and luscious beauty?

We say bring it.

Because with a smile and the flair of a Goddess we will watch them fail or give up and join our Rebellion.

And we’ll welcome them with a sassy smile and open arms.

We are Sassy Bitches.  Enjoy us Purr.

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Signs Your A Sassy Bitch:

1. The word “compromise” makes you yawn.
2. You know what you want and succeed because you find a way when most people quit.
3. You’re finances are in order.
4. You take care of your mind, body and soul.  It’s your top investment.
5. You listen to a man’s words with healthy skepticism.  Actions turn you on.
6. You don’t whine about a problem. You solve the problem.
7. You stay glued to your passions.  They are the keys to your success.
8. You’ve been called a “spit fire” by a man at least once this week.
9. You don’t care if the hot sexy piece of ass you just met calls you or not.  If he’s worth your time, he makes time for you.
10. You take care of your home, family, friends, career, plants.  Because you respect how hard you worked and how lucky you are to have them.
11. If your man tells you he “needs space” you blow him a sassy kiss or help him pack.
12. You understand and appreciate the male ego.  So you can work it for both your pleasure.
13. You know that just because a guy wants to have sex with you, it  doesn’t mean he actually likes you.
14. You absolutely relish calling people on their crap in a calm and unemotional way.  True Bitches know why.
15. You politely listen to the advice and ideas people give you.  Then do exactly what you want to do.  How you want to do it.
16. If someone who loves you calls you on your crap, you listen.  You know they are doing it because they truly love and care.
17. You can’t remember the last time you apologized for anything.

A Sassy Bitch got here because:

1.  She takes care of herself.  She takes the time to know what turns her on and stays moving to her groove.  The better she takes care of herself the more confident she becomes.

2.  She doesn’t spend a lot of time apologizing for things she does.  Because she knows that what she did was right.  She knows she’s won when less confident “Drama Queen” people try to put the blame back on her and make excuses.  Thanks to taking care of herself, these less confident “Drama Queen” people are replaced with confident and wonderful people.  Confident and wonderful people are less prone to doing things that need an apology.  They know when they are wrong and fess up to it.  Much simpler than the Drama Queen, no?

3.  Because she takes care of herself, she always looks good.  She never looks like she just rolled out of bed, she fuels her body with healthy foods and has a wardrobe that makes her feel confident and put together.  She has glowing skin and enjoys playing with her make up.  That little girl that loves to play dress up is always in us!

4.  By taking care of herself she feels good.  When something doesn’t feel right or makes her cringe, she listens to that voice inside her screaming HELL NO!!!!

6.  She takes care of negative emotions (anger, fear, worry) before they have time to fester in her body.  Pushing away these emotions can lead to illness, chronic pain and other body ailments.

7.  Because she takes such good care of herself, she is able to laugh at most day to day annoyances.  And get right back into her groove.

Notice a theme here?  It all starts with you, honey.  Loving yourself is not negative or selfish.  It’s discovering and loving what makes you feel your best.  Which fuels your confidence.  Which is the fuel for everything.  Love, Goddess

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1.   Reading books like “He’s Just Not That Into You” or “How to Land A Man.”

2.   Compromising.

3.   Starting a sentence with… “The problem with you is…”  or  “No way I’d ever do that…”

4.   Failing to rise to the challenge.

5.   Whining about being bored or having nothing to do.

6.   Wallowing in the past or what (sniff) could have been.

7.   Spitting, cracking gum, slurping, burping, or itching certain areas in public.

8.   Shying away if she’s in the center of a scandal.  (She faces it head on with pleasure and rises above it.)

9.   Being a wallflower at an event or party.

10. Avoiding anything that’s scary, uncomfortable or makes her a little uneasy. (Bitch says Bring it On!)

11.  Like she just rolled out of bed in public.  (She takes the time to take care of herself.  She’s never one of those people walking in flip flops in 3 feet of snow, or wearing polka dot and plaid together)

12.  Saying “no” to an intriguing adventure or anything new.

13.  Whining.

14.  Shrinking or surrendering to a man. Letting him control her every move.  (Exception:  she’s “surrendering” to a man giving her pleasure in bed)

15.  Begging a man to stay after he’s told her he needs ”space.”  (She blows him a sassy kiss or helps him pack.)

16.  Being embarrassed talking about her passions, fantasies and exploits.

17.  Devoting herself to a man after the first date.   (She plays the field with relish until a man shows he’s worthy of her)

18.  Being unappreciative to those she loves and all she has.

19.  Ignoring a man’s ego.  (A real Bitch appreciates it and works it for boths’ pleasure)

20.  When asked by someone “What’s new?”  She says “Not much.”

21.  Did I mention “whining?”

Love, Goddess

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The Bitch knows that her rules may change over time. She knows that it’s important to study and practice them:

Old Life rule: I treat everyone with love and respect.

Problem: I discovered I wasn’t giving myself the same loving patience I give others. http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/05/impatiencea-virtue/ I now expect the same patience from those I care about for me. This led to refining that life rule and morphing it into a Bitch Rule:

Bitch Rule: My family, friends and acquaintances treat me with the same loving patience and understanding that I honor them with.  I honor myself by treating me with the same loving actions.

Over time, as you respect yourself more, pleasurable things begin to happen. I love having doors opened for me wherever I go. I discovered how much I loved this respectful behavior from men and this action multiplied. Friends notice and comment on it. They say “that never happens to me.“ I tell them it would if you desire and enjoy it.

Respect for yourself multiplies in other areas, too. I don’t get hurt or angry any more from random disrespect. I communicate much more effectively my displeasure. If someone is having a bad day, it’s not my fault. Why take it personally? Taking random disrespect personally is a time waster. There are so many other things to enjoy!

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Bitch Rule #2:  We will not compete with other women.  This forum is a place where we can support, cheer, and turn each other on with our individual sense of fun, play and laughter.

Bitch Rule #3:  We will not judge each other here.   The path to falling completely in love with ourselves takes some unexpected turns.  We support each other and love the discoveries!

Bitch Rule #4:  We treat our bodies like the gorgeous vessels they are.  Our skin, organs, lips, brain, hair, limbs and luscious pussies are celebrated.  Every inch.  We are beautiful!

Bitch Rule #5:  We love our girlfriends and stay faithful always!  We do not break dates with them when our new guys call us last minute.  Or change plans with them if he wants to do something.  Our time with our girlfriends is sacred.  We keep that time when we start seeing a new man, have a boyfriend or get married.  Yay girlfriends!

Bitch Rule #6:  We are grateful and appreciate what we have everyday.  Our families, friends, men, careers, children, pets, plants and our luscious bodies.  (There is so much to appreciate!  Thank you Universe!!)

Bitch Rule #7:  We revel in our power to attract as women.  We are attractors.   Magnets.

Bitch Rule #8:  We understand that a lot of men don’t understand what we want.   The sexes communicate in such different ways.   Here we will learn how to communicate in a way to make them understand what we want.  We will do so in a loving and patient way.

And there is so much more fun to come…

Love, Goddess

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