If a man wants to borrow money from you, ladies, I have a one word answer for it.
I get so many emails from females that are having problems with guys asking them for money. Some have only known these dudes for a few weeks! Whenever I ask one of my guy friends about this, they say, “Don’t do it. Don’t lend a guy money that you’re dating. Or who is a boyfriend. That’s not cool.”
Why? This is what the good men know:
A man will not ask a woman he truly likes for cash. The man you want takes care of himself and looks for ways to take care of you. I don’t care what the reason is. He needs this, he needs that. He wants to buy a car. He tells you he’ll make it a loan. Don’t fall for it. He will not pay you back. Contract or no. Want to see some proof of this? Watch a court show on TV.
And a lot of women take advantage of men this way too! He’ll take her out to dinner and then when they are on errands she talks about what she “needs.” Does she whip out her cash? No. She’s waiting for him to take the bait. And the nice guys will. She’ll use him then dump him. When he could have been with:
The Bitch. The Bitch takes care of herself. She wants the man who can take care of himself. That’s what grown-ups do. Take care of their lives. They don’t expect anyone else to do it for them. So in conclusion:
- If you are dating a guy and he asks for money? RUN.
- If your boyfriend asks you to borrow money: RUN.
- If a guy friend of yours asks to borrow money: RUN.
- If guy friend asks you to do financial stuff for him: Mommy or Sexy Bitch RUN.
Run TO the man who is responsible. The man who takes care of himself and looks for ways to take care of you. And I’m not talking only money here! Run to the man of action: He doesn’t “say” he’s going to do something. He does it. The man who opens doors for you, gives you warm hugs, fixes things for you and is interested in your life. Let me know what you think. 😉 Love, Goddess
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This post is dedicated to my brother Gary who is very adamant about the subject. Instead of giving it to him-give to yourself and increase your net worth, beauty!
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