I love men. I appreciate them in so many ways. (Watch for a male appreciate blog coming up) They’re much less complex than women are. Which leads to huge communication issues between the sexes. In this blog we’re going to address communication snafus and other “male mysteries.” Bit by bit. Like my earlier blog on “savoring” we’re going to savor and celebrate the differences in our sexes.
Savoring and understanding men for who they are is so much more fun than looking at men negatively: “I hate men,” “ All men are losers, jerks.” I think this whole attitude about men sucks. Yes, we’ve all met jerky guys in the past. That’s the past. Now is now. So put on a new hat and let’s celebrate men instead. Don’t you want to be celebrated for who you truly are too? We start by celebrating ourselves as women, first.
When was the last time you celebrated yourself? You—in all your womanly glory? You must love yourself first before you love a man. Love yourself so much that you don’t give a shit what anyone thinks. You rock, you adore you and you 110% know it. We’re not talking about conceit here. We’re talking true self love…flaws and beauty all. Then you can communicate effectively what you want from a man and invite him into your fabulous universe. One of the biggest questions I get from men is this:
“I don’t know what women want.”
It’s no wonder when we’re constantly fed what men want, but what about what we as women want?
Let’s take a look at this months’ issue of Cosmo (Jan 2009) “Bad Girl Sex” “Are you a Great Date?” “Drama of the Day.” Now I like fluff as much as the next girl, but some people take this stuff seriously! Let’s look at another magazine cover: Glamour: “263 Juicy Answers from Guys” (How they feel about you. But what’s more important…what you know about you or what they know about you. Remember…most men don’t know what you want) “21 Ways You Turn Him On,” (Great…but what turns you on fair one?) Then there are “59 new tips you have to know about him.”
Where’s the woman celebration? Let’s start one right here, right now. Let’s come up with our own “59 new tips about women and what you have to know “ right here on this blog. Let’s make it juicy and fun: 60 Reasons to Celebrate Women! I’ll start it off:
- Every single one of us has our own unique beauty, talent and passion for life.
- We can multi-task like nobody’s business.
- We give birth to beautiful babies! Hence…we are the ultimate creators…
Whatcha got for me ladies? Let’s celebrate ourselves! I’ll post the completed list soon. Love, Goddess