Full list of Sassy Bitch Rules: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2011/05/signs-youre-a-sassy-bitch/
Sign you’re a Sassy Bitch #5: You listen to a man’s words with healthy skepticism. Actions turn you on.
Men will say just about anything to get what they want from you. They always want something. And that, Sassy Bitch…plays right into our hot little hands. Except we do it backwards. We let them have what they want…sex or whatever and then wonder why they don’t call, text or set up dates. They’ve gotten what they want and they have moved on. When you MAKE a man produce FIRST by backing up his words with action, he has to work harder to get what he wants. If what he wants is us, we get the pleasure of sitting back and letting him produce. He has to work harder to get what he wants, which feeds his ego. By taking his words with a grain of salt, we get spared the pain. Trusting his action backed words makes us feel safe and treasured. Again, when we are happy and he is able to contribute to our happiness, his ego is fed.
Ladies…do you think men are “hairy women?” Do you think they think the same as you and your girlfriends? Well, they don’t. At all. So in honor of Sassy Bitch Rule #5, let’s review some of the ways we need to understand men better.
- Men seem to be attracted to the things that are hardest to get: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/what-you-can-learn-from-men-magazines/
- Men seem to like the chase: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/06/let-a-man-chase-you-heres-how/
- A lot of women don’t seem to understand the primal essence of a man: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2010/07/giving-you-a-hot-sexy-shot-of-testosterone/
- Women who are loving and generous may be vulnerable to creeps that will take advantage of them: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2011/04/if-a-man-wants-to-borrow-money/ Unfortunately if you give an inch with a man he will take a mile. Don’t let him walk all over you, honey!
I’m going to give you one more article. It’s an article about Oxytocin. Oxytocin, sometimes called “the bonding hormone,” is a hormone both sexes produce in the body during sex. A woman also releases this hormone during childbirth. It’s important to understand a bit more about this hormone and how it may make us feel after we have sex with a man: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2011/04/the-cuddle-hormone-2/
One final piece of evidence. You know when you hear men talking about what “dogs” they are? They are being truthful. I was chatting with a man on Twitter and he insisted all men are dogs. No matter what. I wrote back: There are good dogs and bad dogs. The good dogs back their words up with action. He replied back:
“This is true.”
So there you have it – right from the Dobermans’ mouth. So do the Bitch University reading assignments above. And study the Sassy Bitch rules thoroughly. Class dismissed. Love, Goddess
How high are you on the “Sassy” scale? Here is the complete list of traits from “Signs You’re a Sassy Bitch: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2011/05/signs-youre-a-sassy-bitch/
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