Thanksgiving Grateful: You!

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I am so grateful this Thanksgiving I can barely sit!  Last night on our Facebook page I posted this:

I’m a little disturbed by emails I’ve been getting from women who are using men as experiments in dating. Yes, there are jerks out there. Get it. I meet them too. If you know a man who is into you and you aren’t? Be honest. Seriously bad karma if you aren’t!

This is so important because good men are hurt by bad women.  Good women are hurt by bad men.  Trust is broken.  This turns into a cycle that keeps churning out more distrust and confusion about each other.  I feel the hurt from both sides.  Then a guy posted a remark regarding this quote.  It led to a few more posts and then to some really misguided thoughts he had about women.  I’m not sure if he really thinks this way because he is a jerk, or if he has been hurt by women in the past, or if he hasn’t had strong feminine women in his life who appreciate him for who he is.  What was awesome was…

YOU!

Several of our “Sassy Bitches” wouldn’t let his comments slide.  They get how important it is for women to have each others’ backs.  How important it is to relish who we are, love ourselves and play and have fun with all the blessings of being female.  How empowering it is to have permission to just go for it.  Knowing you have a safety net…our Bitch Rebellion.  Thank you thank you thank you.  It’s only going to get better.  Bigger and more fun!

Post dedicated to the Sassy Jacklyn and Sassy Gianna.

Love, Goddess

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2 thoughts on “Thanksgiving Grateful: You!

  1. Goddess, that facebook exchange was soooo interesting wasn’t it?! 😉
    I just can’t stand reductive thinking, and it pains me to see that STILL so many guys (and some girls, if we’re being completely honest!) have such an irrational approach to defining gender and relationships. With regard to the unacceptable comments that guy made, I have this to say: a personal attack on those you disagree with is the refuge of the defeated.
    I’ve been reading your site on and off for the last 8 months or so. This is the first time I’ve commented. Thank you! 🙂 Gia x

  2. Hey Gianna,
    True true and true. He was trying to push our buttons. It was great because it’s a perfect example of how men do this in life. Very educational, no? Love, Goddess

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