Men who want you to chase them. Read this article and then I will follow-up with you on the latest: http://bitchlifestyle.com/2011/10/how-to-get-a-girl-to-chase-you/ The latest: the other night I was on Twitter working late. I got a message from a guy that I went out with a couple of times. The guy from the article I wanted you to read above. Some time has passed since he last tried to get me to chase him. I’d forgotten that we even follow each other on Twitter! This is the message he sent me:
Chase Guy: Hey Sharon I miss your face! Call me.
Me: I’m not your type. I don’t chase.
Within minutes…can you guess, Sweet and Sassy Bitch what happened? Yeah…I get a phone call. From Chase Guy. Do I answer? Hell no. Am I mad? No. I think it’s amusing. When I listened to his voice mail, he was all “sensual and alluring.” Trying to lure me into calling him so we can “catch up.” Then I go on Twitter and he has sent me a couple tweets. Excuses for why he hasn’t been in touch. How he tried to call me but my phone gave out a “no call” signal-all garbage. Garbage and lies, because girlfriends, I have the voice mail he left me. Still not mad. In order to get mad you have to care. What I care about is YOU and YOU recognizing the signs of a guy trying to get you to chase him. A guy who is making it all about getting YOU to please him. That’s his challenge. Getting you to jump through hoops for him.
Today Chase Guy sent me a direct message on Twitter. Something about you pleasure me, or something and a link. Curious to what this tactic was, I clicked on it. It led to a blank page. LOL. Kinda metaphoric, huh? There’s nothing there.
You know what works with me? This does:
I sent a text to a friend of mine-M. M and I have been friends for a long time. We are also very attracted to each other and enjoy a physical relationship as well. Before my vacation, I sent him the following text:
Me: The next time I see you I want you to tickle me until I beg for mercy!
M: Okay 😉
Me: Happy and excited smile!
Notice the text exchange is short, sweet and playful.
A couple of nights later he texted me-following up on our last flirtation. It was hot, fun and playful. M was going to try to come up and see me for a “departing tickle” before I left on vacation. It didn’t work out because he travels with his full-time job and runs a business on weekends. To say that he is busy is an understatement. Knowing how busy he is, and appreciating him making the effort to please me, I happily let him go do his thing. I know that he will produce my want for me. No doubt. Besides…we agreed, the wait would make it that much sweeter!
The night after getting back from vacation, I got a text from M asking me how my vacation was. We sent sexy and flirtatious texts while he was waiting to get on a plane hours away. He said it was too bad he wasn’t closer because we couldn’t do what we were discussing in the texts. About an hour later I get a text from him saying he was “closer” because his plane just landed. And he could be closer still. He wound up driving an hour to see me and we spent an incredible night together. It ended with him saying, “Welcome Home.” I said “Welcome Home” back and kissed him.
This man is SO busy. Yet, after a busy day of work and travel he wanted to see me. The memory makes me purr. This is making a big effort, ladies! This is a man who likes you and wants to please you. So which sounds like more fun to you hotties? A man who travels an hour to pleasure you and see you? Or a guy who tells you to “call me?” Yuck. Yeah…I think we all know the answer to that one!
PS: I will definitely be keeping you up to date on the tactics “Chase Man,” uses. I don’t see him stopping in the near future.
- Dating Concept #1: Signs That a Man Wants You to Chase Him
- Let a Man Chase You. Here’s How
- Dealing With a Demanding Man
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