Memorial Day Gratitude

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Gorgeous Memorial Day image from Pinterest


Memorial Day Gratitude.   A country wide Memorial Day celebration for all in the armed forces and their loved ones.  The thought of an entire country having a HUGE BBQ Gratitude Party in the warm spring sun always makes me smile.  LET’S PARTY!  Big hug, shot of tequila toast and from the bottom of my heart love to our service men and women.  We would not be here without each and every one of you.  Love, Goddess


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Fun With Feminine Quotes

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Reaching higher or giving ourselves a kick in the *** when we need them.  Gorgeous image from Public domain 


Fun with Feminine Quotes!  Let’s have some fun.  Seriously (insert winky smiley face here)

“The egg gives a chemical signal to the sperm or the sperm would not know where it’s going!”  Dr. Christiane Northrup.

OMG I love this quote.  This is a metaphor for the male female relationship.  I know it’s a lot…but it’s also so fun to think about.  We have so much power that we aren’t using ladies!  Revel in your power…and all the fun you could be having.

“Some of the things you believe were never true.  They were someone else’s fears.  Give yourself a chance to examine your thoughts.  Change those that are negative.  You are deserving.”  Louise Hay

Some people teach us to shame:  Our bodies, our beliefs, our dreams.  That is just their fear.  Or their “shit.”  This sort of thing can make you feel very uncomfortable.  I was at a dinner.   It was 8 of us.  3 of the women I did not know very well but they were fun and witty!  Until the food came to the table.  Three of them split a tiny filet and salad.  I will never forget how unhappy they became.  It was like the energy was just sucked out of the fun and witty.  Worse…it made me feel yucky about eating my own dinner!  I was able to switch it to gratitude for my meal but this was not easy.  This is so tough but remember…try try not to be sucked into this.  Idea:  Create a list of everything you are grateful for.  When you are in a situation similar to this?  Try focusing on those things.

“There is no way of knowing unless you ask.”  Bitch Lifestyle

This is classic Drama Queen.  Drama Queens drive themselves crazy wondering!  A Sassy Bitch will ask.

” I have a respect for manners as such, they are a way of dealing with people you don’t agree with or like.”  Margaret Mead

LOL…love.  A well placed “Pardon Me?” to a rude person is so fun when you see how they react!  For more:  Dealing with Rude People

“You’ve got enemies?  Good.  That means you actually stood up for something in life.”  Eminiem

Yup.  Double the fun if you were “mannered” in your dealing with these people.

“The secret of being a bore is to tell everything.”  Voltaire

This is a major secret from some of the most notorious Seductresses:  Beware of revealing too much too soon!  More Seductress Secrets

“When was the last time you did something for the first time?”  Anonymous Sassy Bitch

I was really behind the eight ball on this one and have added 2 new things to do this year.  I want to learn to play golf and learn all I can about real estate.  How about YOU????

“The truth will set you free.  But first it will piss you off.”  Gloria Steinem.

Right????  LOL

“It’s exhausting being fabulous.”  Ancient Bitch Proverb.

Yes it is.  Sometimes.  But do we have a choice?  I was watching a lady on TV.  I found her energy and zest a bit off putting.  Then I found out she had been dealing with Multiple Sclerosis for years.  Suddenly her zest for life made me realize my Bratty Brat was in charge.   I’m grateful for her now because this gave me the “kick in the ass” I deserved.  How dare I judge her?  Especially someone I don’t know.  Thank you lady.  For showing me that I had lost my fabulous.  If you can party with Multiple Sclerosis?  I can wake up from my BRAT.   She showed me that I need to be WAY more grateful and party with that instead.

Now go out and play with these quotes and own your fabulous.  Love, Goddess


Suggested Reading:

  1.  Dodging Energy Vampires
  2.  Confidence:  Signs You’re a Sassy Bitch
  3.  On Amazon:  Bitch Lifestyle The Manual
  4.  Bitch Lifestyle Home


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Your New Adventure Awaits!

Happy New Year, New Year Planning

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Screw the resolutions, ladies!  Your new adventure awaits.  A year full of all you desire to create.  Adventure and travel, spreading love, joy and fun, developing new tastes, hobbies.  All you need is your imagination, action and who knows what you can accomplish?  I so look forward to this time of year.  Gratitude for the year that has gone by and all that I have to look forward to.  Wanna play with me?

Pick a time by the end of Jan 1st 2018.  Grab your laptop or a gorgeous writing pad and pen.  Light candles, sip on your favorite cocktail, cozy up in your favorite lingerie and softest blankets.  And REVEL.  REVEL in the brilliance of your past year.  How clever you are and all that you are grateful for.  Write it down to admire.  Now and when you don’t feel so clever.  Then…let your imagination run wild.  What would you love to accomplish and enjoy next year?  Write everything down, from the tiniest desire to the grandest.  Savor the thought of each one.  Post it where you can see it.  Fall asleep dreaming about them!

Then…develop an action plan for them.  Some will be easier than others…some will take more planning.  Some may be outrageous.  No matter.  Your desires and creations will fuel you through good, bad and routine.  Just start.  Write, admire and plan.  Oh…and please share.  SHARE.  Your creativity will inspire us all!  Have the happiest next few days planning your most incredible New Years EVER!

Love, Goddess

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