
The Bitch knows that her rules may change over time. She knows that it’s important to study and practice them:
Old Life rule: I treat everyone with love and respect.
Problem: I discovered I wasn’t giving myself the same loving patience I give others. http://bitchlifestyle.com/2009/05/impatiencea-virtue/ I now expect the same patience from those I care about for me. This led to refining that life rule and morphing it into a Bitch Rule:
Bitch Rule: My family, friends and acquaintances treat me with the same loving patience and understanding that I honor them with. I honor myself by treating me with the same loving actions.
Over time, as you respect yourself more, pleasurable things begin to happen. I love having doors opened for me wherever I go. I discovered how much I loved this respectful behavior from men and this action multiplied. Friends notice and comment on it. They say “that never happens to me.“ I tell them it would if you desire and enjoy it.
Respect for yourself multiplies in other areas, too. I don’t get hurt or angry any more from random disrespect. I communicate much more effectively my displeasure. If someone is having a bad day, it’s not my fault. Why take it personally? Taking random disrespect personally is a time waster. There are so many other things to enjoy!
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I agree 100%. I have learned that keeping silent does one no good. I am honest, and try to put my comments forth in a loving, kind, but firm manner. Bitch gotta be heard!=)
Go you…love your attitude! Love, Goddess
i agree getting th respect you deserve is the most amazing thing that can ever happen but it needs a lot of work from our side!
Yes, LoveMe! Beautifully said. Love, Goddess
Think before you speak but always speak what you think.
Take time for yourself.
Set attainable goals.
Do not define your self worth in the image of a man.
Amelia, you rocked my Sassy Bitch not once, but twice today. Go you! Love, Goddess