Today and tomorrow we’re going to discuss 2 dating tips for women concepts. Before we get to concept #1, check out this post: Dating Tips for Women: Let a Man Chase You Here’s How then meet me back here for the fun.
Dating Tips for Women Concept #1: Signs that a man wants YOU to chase HIM. This is “Guy A.” I love “Guy A” because he’s a text book example for this concept. He gives me his number, then tells me to call him. Do I? Please. I agree to IM with him and give him my AIM name. Do I IM him first? Please. Finally he IMs me and here is our conversation. What I am thinking during the conversation is in italics.
Guy A: What’s good? Wow…that’s a hot greeting. No hi, how are you? FYI: He’s putting pressure on me to tell him something good to impress him. Trust me, nothing good is going on with him. This is the type of guy who puts it all on the woman to please him.
Me: Blueberry pie and red wine. This is a set up statement. So I can call him on his shit.
Him: Ya got some 4 me? All about you, isn’t it honey?
Me: You’ve got to earn that kind of love from me, Hotstuff.
Him: What do I do?
Me: You don’t know how to earn that kind of love from a woman? Don’t waste my time. If you don’t know, I’m not telling you.
Him: Where r u? Notice how the subject is changed. I called him on his “shit” and he got it.
Him: What do you do for work?
Me: I run a web site for women that are kick ass.
He didn’t respond quick enough so I logged off. I was talking with my best friend and had other things to do. Plus, the whole question grilling thing was not fun for me. So…how Bitchy was that on a scale of 1-10? Fairly high. LOL! This guy is interested, but I’m not taking him seriously because he has done nothing to make me do so. This man wants me to chase him. This is what a “guy” does. A “MAN” backs up his words with actions. He does what he says he’s going to do. He greets you warmly—even in an instant message.
Now that I’ve told you all this, don’t get mad. Don’t hate this “guy.” He’s just clueless on how to treat a woman. No one has properly told him. Or kicked him in the ass when he’s not being a gentleman. Isn’t that a bit sad? This is why I want you to not take the whole dating thing so seriously. You’re going to meet men who are clueless. You’re going to meet amazing ones too. This is a learning experience. Check your “Brat” at the door and let your “Bitch in the room.” Who Controls You Your Bitch or Your Brat?
Got it? If you have any questions, please let me know! Get ready for tomorrow’s discussion: Dating Tips for Women Concept #2: A Man Says What He Means! Love, Goddess
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