Your Theme Song

your theme song,
Gorgeous ribbon from Etsy and Petite Personalities

Today at Bitch U, we discuss your theme song.  Your home work is to find or identify yours.  Here’s why:

1.  It’s kind of fun to have a theme song.  Or the thought of it, yes?  Mine is “I’m a Bitch” by Meredith Brooks.   I even have it as my ring tone. 😉

2.  Feel less than sexy? Shake your butt to “SexyBack,” Justin Timberlake

3.  Right before an important event play your song to sass you up and get rid of any nerves.  (First date, speech, ie)

4.  Feeling depressed?  Embrace it with: “Bad Day,” Daniel Powter 

5.  Feeling pissed? Dissipate it:  “Fighter,” Christina Aguilera 

6.  Bitch up #4 by dancing really slow and sensually. Look in a mirror and kiss it good bye with a sassy swirl of your hips.

7.  Play and have fun with the idea of finding your perfect theme song.  Or songs. 😉

8.  Please share your songs and why here and on our Bitch Lifestyle Facebook page  

9.  Double please for #8!  I sooo want to hear your hot ideas! They will help all of us rock our emotions.

Love, Goddess

© S Stevens Life Strategies

Meredith Brooks-I’m a Bitch

meredith brooks,
The gorgeous Meredith Brooks from her website

Meredith Brooks-I’m a Bitch.

I love the Meredith Brooks song “I’m a Bitch.”  My favorite part in the song is when she lists all the things she is, good and bad.  She isn’t ashamed about any one of them.  That’s what we’re striving for here in the Bitch Rebellion.  Loving every drop of our gorgeous selves.

I’m a bitch, I’m a lover
I’m a child, I’m a mother
I’m a sinner, I’m a saint
I do not feel ashamed
I’m your health, I’m your dream
I’m nothing in between
You know you wouldn’t want it any other way

There are strong men in our world who would die for the woman singing this to them.  And men who will do anything to silence her.  They want to silence this woman because of fear.  They know what Meredith Brooks knows.  What you and I are discovering together.  A strong, sensual, charming, confident woman turns men into putty.  Sorry about the cliched metaphor but it’s so true.  We can mold him however we want.  But what’s even greater is the strong, confident, sexy man who gets this too.  We can put him in his place, yes.  But he’ll put us in ours, too.  And that’s the relationship that will work.  Give it the fire, respect, fun and challenge it needs to succeed.  The sexes being completely themselves-the ultimate love affair.  It starts by us by not changing who a man is.  Respect him for exactly who he is.  Warts and all.  Not trying to change what we don’t like.  Unless he asks for our opinion.  It starts with us embracing and loving our feminine selves.  And not changing to accommodate him.  Changing each other is the kiss of death to each sexes’ strength.

I’m a bitch, I’m a tease
I’m a goddess on my knees
when you hurt, when you suffer
I’m your angel undercover
I’ve been numbed, I’m revived
can’t say I’m not alive
You know I wouldn’t want it any other way

He takes strength from ours.  Our loving strength.  And so many women do not get this.  So how do we unearth our Angel Undercover?

1.  We take care of ourselves. The One Thing You Have Control Over   

2.  We stop competing with other women.  We should be glued to each other and our strengths. We’re a force of nature on our own…and together?  What You Can Learn From Mens Magazines  

3.  We get back to nature pronto.  Men are the producers.  We are the benefactors.  Men like the chase, the challenge.  We honor them by letting them chase us.  It becomes manipulation when you are not grounded in your life.  Be grounded in you and let him earn you.  

This takes a lot of work.  I’ve been at it for years!  But it’s so worth it.  It’s scary having this much power over men.  You need to be a strong woman to handle it.  Here’s one to inspire you:   And everything on this web site is dedicated to you getting there.  Everything.  It’s work, yes.  But it’s the most fun, rewarding and amazing experience you’ll ever have.  Owning you.  And you, me and everyone else on this web site and on Facebook are leading the Rebellion.

Love, Goddess

© S Stevens Life Strategies