I love the Meredith Brooks song “I’m a Bitch.” My favorite part in the song is when she lists all the things she is, good and bad. She isn’t ashamed about any one of them. That’s what we’re striving for here in the Bitch Rebellion. Loving every drop of our gorgeous selves.
I’m a bitch, I’m a lover
I’m a child, I’m a mother
I’m a sinner, I’m a saint
I do not feel ashamed
I’m your health, I’m your dream
I’m nothing in between
You know you wouldn’t want it any other way
There are strong men in our world who would die for the woman singing this to them. And men who will do anything to silence her. They want to silence this woman because of fear. They know what Meredith Brooks knows. What you and I are discovering together. A strong, sensual, charming, confident woman turns men into putty. Sorry about the cliched metaphor but it’s so true. We can mold him however we want. But what’s even greater is the strong, confident, sexy man who gets this too. We can put him in his place, yes. But he’ll put us in ours, too. And that’s the relationship that will work. Give it the fire, respect, fun and challenge it needs to succeed. The sexes being completely themselves-the ultimate love affair. It starts by us by not changing who a man is. Respect him for exactly who he is. Warts and all. Not trying to change what we don’t like. Unless he asks for our opinion. It starts with us embracing and loving our feminine selves. And not changing to accommodate him. Changing each other is the kiss of death to each sexes’ strength.
I’m a bitch, I’m a tease
I’m a goddess on my knees
when you hurt, when you suffer
I’m your angel undercover
I’ve been numbed, I’m revived
can’t say I’m not alive
You know I wouldn’t want it any other way
He takes strength from ours. Our loving strength. And so many women do not get this. So how do we unearth our Angel Undercover?
3. We get back to nature pronto. Men are the producers. We are the benefactors. Men like the chase, the challenge. We honor them by letting them chase us. It becomes manipulation when you are not grounded in your life. Be grounded in you and let him earn you.
This takes a lot of work. I’ve been at it for years! But it’s so worth it. It’s scary having this much power over men. You need to be a strong woman to handle it. Here’s one to inspire you: And everything on this web site is dedicated to you getting there. Everything. It’s work, yes. But it’s the most fun, rewarding and amazing experience you’ll ever have. Owning you. And you, me and everyone else on this web site and on Facebook are leading the Rebellion.