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Sometimes they just won’t go away. All the ignoring in the world doesn’t work.
The guy that is chasing you that doesn’t care about you. You’ve communicated with him in a bottom line way. He still continues. Instead of respecting your words he ups the ante. The goal is seeing exactly what works to reach his goal. Just having you. Yes, I’m talking about “Chase Guy.” I hesitated writing this because I don’t want to feed his ego in doing it. Which I know it will. There are a million reasons why not to write it. None matter because one of the goals at Bitch Lifestyle is for women to be able to handle the jerks and not let them push their buttons. It’s like the Universe plopped this guy into our lives and now we all have to deal. One of those “teachable moments.” Because…
After months of me ignoring him, “Chase Guy” upped the ante. He liked and posted on Bitch Lifestyle’s Facebook page. I don’t even have to tell you who he is. If you go, you’ll be able to tell. Don’t engage him. That isn’t the point. He posted something obnoxious and self-serving. If it had been when we first met? I would have laughed and been playful with the comment. Because of his actions I’m not in a playful mood. Remember this post – it will ground you with obnoxious men: Dealing With a Demanding Man Remember. If he wants access, he has to play by YOUR rules. When he plays by your rules, he gets nice accommodating you. When he doesn’t? You call him on it and watch his actions. If he gets it, he’ll do what you ask. If he doesn’t care he’ll send you something disrespectful like this:
“Didn’t mean to misunderstand, just giving you naughty pleasure crossed my mind and wanted to say hi since back in town 🙂 Maybe we’ll cross paths, maybe not. Hope you’re well 🙂 “
The only person I want “naughty pleasure” from is a man I can trust. No girl should ever trust a guy like this. Unless of course she is an EXTREME bad ass and can have such naughty pleasure with the guy that it throws him for a loop. And then she dumps him. Notch on her bed post. I totally respect that. It’s not me, however. Remember, “Chase Guy” travels in a circle of friends I have. So at some point I will see him. Upping the ante. One day he’ll realize that I’m not playing. None of us Sassy Bitches are. Love, Goddess
Dating Concept #1: Signs That a Man Wants You to Chase Him
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